Most people want to find love but they are sabotaging themselves without realizing it. Here is how you may be sabotaging yourself and how to change that!
Being obsessed and desperate for love sends out a desperation energy which actually repels love. When you need something to that degree it sends out an energy of lack. Lack energy will always repel love and only attract more lack into your life including finances.
You have to be happy with you to attract real love. When you aren't happy with yourself you will feel a desperate need for love as a way to fill that void. That will never work. No one else can fill a void for you, only you can do that for yourself. When you are empty within yourself you will only attract an empty love. Unfortunately so many get stuck in this cycle with one empty love after another.
Love always comes from within, no matter what. So it's always important to work on you first then all areas of your life will fall into place.
Focus on what you can do to create happiness and fullness in your life. Remember a partner should only be the cherry on top of your own fulfillment not your fulfillment. You must find yourself first, this is so important. So many want to skip this step but it's the most important thing when trying to attract love.
If you aren't happy with yourself you will only attract those that aren't happy with you and those that you aren't happy with. If you aren't treating yourself right, you will attract those that won't treat you treat you right as well. You have to treat yourself well first before you can find someone else to treat you well. By not treating yourself well you are putting out there that you aren't valuable and worth it which only attracts that in a partner.
Look at how you are treating yourself compared to who is in your life. There will be a direct mirror. If you don't like who you are attracting you always have to look at how you are treating yourself. That will always directly affect who is in your life.
So when you want love, turn your focus on yourself first. Work on loving yourself and creating a life you love. Add more fun into your life. Happiness, fun, and confidence attracts love.
It's important to get to a place where you are happy without love and know that it's not something you need. It's just a nice added benefit. Know that you can find that love and all that you are craving from within. Make that empowering! You don't need anyone else to get what you need! You have full control of your happiness which is so exciting! Then once you have it you will attract love if that's what you want.
The actions we take are what is put out into the world. So really look at what you are putting out. Are you choosing to settle for less than you deserve in any area of your life? Doing that will only attract a partner that will always be less than you deserve.
Really look closely at all the choices you are making. Are you making choices out of desperation? Out of fear? Out of lack? Out of guilt? Those will only block you from real love.
What we attract will always come from choices we make so really look deep at yourself.
Find your confidence and create the life you really want, don't settle! Always know you have the power and it's already within you, use it!
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