We all can create the lives we want. So many settle and think they have to stick with the life they have but that's not true. There is always a way to start towards the life you really want. Here are some tips to get there.
Know what you want.
The first and most important thing is to know what you do want and what you don't want. You can not create without having at the least an idea of what you want to start with.
Even if you don't know for sure, focus on what you think you want and start working towards it. As you get closer if you realize you don't want that anymore let that be okay. That will help you to further narrow down what you do want.
It's so important to be clear on what you want, if not then what you want will be decided for you and you won't be happy. So really take time to focus on getting clear on what you want. The clearer you are, the more your spirit guides can help you with it.
Indecision is a sure way to feel stuck and you don't want that. Some people stay stuck in indecision because they are perfectionists and are afraid of making the wrong choice. The only real wrong choice is not making one at all. If you never make a choice you can never move forward and can never create the life you want.
Even the wrong choice will help you tremendously. It helps you to figure out what you don't want and to get clearer on what you do want. So let go of that fear to make a decision and start going for it! That is the only way to have the life you really want!
If you feel stuck and indecisive, doing something, anything out of your comfort zone can help to open up your creative energy and get your thoughts flowing. Really focus on what you want and what makes you happy.
2. Elimination
We all have a certain amount of time and in order to put what we want in our lives we must cut out some things that we can replace with what we want.
So first start with what don't you want that's in your life? What do you feel just obligated to do? Obligation is never good for anyone and always takes you off of your path. Know that you can say no!
Really work towards eliminating things that you really don't want to do. There is always a way to make a change. It may take time to implement but just starting towards it makes a huge difference. Your time is precious, fill it with what makes you happy and with what is fulfilling the rest is not important!
Also look into who you are around in your life. Even just one negative person can create a huge issue in your life. Work towards being only around those that lift you up not bring you down or cause drama. Just allowing one of those people in your life will cause you to attract more of that.
It's your life and you can choose who you want to be around no matter the person is to you. Yes it may be hard but is being miserable forever really worth it instead of taking the hard step to move forward from them?
Really look at who or what is holding you back and work towards eliminating them/it from your life. You have the power to create that happy life and sometimes that takes some hard choices but it is worth it. A little while of a hard choice is worth forever with peace and happiness.
Also look at what you are doing in your life that is unnecessary. So many think that they just HAVE to do everything but that's not true. Really see what you can cut back on or eliminate to give yourself more time for what you do want. Work with your happiness and fulfillment in all areas of your life as your main focus!
3. Plan
Once you know what you do want and eliminate what you don't want, now it's time to start planning. Really plan ahead and schedule in what you do want to be sure you can do it. Make it important and put it on your calendar.
So many think what they want isn't important enough to schedule and then they never get to it. But in fact that is the most important thing! We are here on earth to experience and express ourselves so that really should be number one on all of our lists!
Also think ahead about the steps it will take to create what you want. Do you need to go back to school or get more training for that dream job? Do you need to finally make time for that hobby you so enjoy? Do you need time for you to just rest and read a book?
Whatever it is, break it down into steps and start towards it one step at a time. Don't overwhelm yourself thinking of all the steps it will take, just focus on one step at a time and before you know it you will reach your goal!
Just starting in the right direction can be so fulfilling just in itself and can give you lots of momentum. So take time to plan out and schedule the steps to get to the life you want. No excuses!
4. Implement
Now start implementing your plan! You have that time scheduled in now so do it! As you do, pay attention if you need to make any tweaks or changes. Your life is always a work in progress so keep making changes until you get it exactly how you want!
Always be open to seeing anything you aren't happy with and start to change that. Keep tweaking until you get it right. As you do you will start to notice when something doesn't feel right right away and you can eliminate it quickly. Once you get into that flow of the life you want it will get easier and easier to maintain that.
You are important and you are here to experience what you want. You and only you have the power to have that life you want so use it! Don't stand in the way of your happiness!
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