Don’t Do These Two Things If You Are Looking For Love!

There are a lot of common love blocks I find in people over and over so I thought I'd write a quick message to help prevent you from these two dead end patterns when it comes to finding love.

First be sure you aren't putting yourself last or neglecting yourself in any way. That only attracts those that will neglect you and who also put you last. 

How you treat yourself will directly affect who you can attract. Your highest love wouldn't do that so that won't allow you to be ready for or to attract your highest love. It keeps you in a never ending cycle, always attracting those that neglect you in some way.

So look at anywhere where you are putting yourself last or neglecting yourself including your health and make changes. Pay attention when you have any negative self talk and remember you will attract that in a partner. Really focus on treating yourself exactly how you would want a partner to treat you. 

Also look at it the other way. Look at past people you have attracted and look at how you were doing something similar to yourself. Figure out exactly what you want in a partner and start treating yourself like that! You must put yourself first!

And secondly be sure you are not over giving! Be sure to always have equal give and take in all relationships, that's important. 

Overgiving is 100% guaranteed to push real love away. Most people overgive in hopes to get someone to like or love them but ironically it actually has the opposite effect so keep that in mind. 

Also look at other areas and relationships in your life you may be doing that as well. We are whole beings so each area of our life affects all other areas. So having that pattern in just one other area would affect your love life so be mindful of that going forward. 

That need to over give stems from some insecurities and is unconsciously an effort to make up for those insecurities. It's almost like a feeling of "I'm not enough so overgiving will make me more worthy of love." 

But it in turn only makes the signal of your insecurities even bigger and lights up the insecurities which would block an actual real love from being attracted. 

It sends out the signal of "I'm not enough as I am" so you could only attract those that aren't enough or will take advantage of those insecurities. 

So when searching for love be mindful of these two things so you don't stay in a never ending search!

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