3 Ways To Heighten Your Intuition

We all have the ability to connect deeper with our intuition but unfortunately many don't. It's such a powerful gift and should be used and nurtured! It's like a muscle, the more you work on it the more it grows. Once you really start to trust and listen to it, it will grow and grow.

Our higher self and our spirit guides are always sending us messages and clues but we must make a point to pay attention. Start really paying attention and looking deeper and you will be amazed with what you can do.

Here are 3 ways to connect with and grow your intuition:

1. Listen to it

This may sound obvious but so many know something in their gut and they ignore it! Trust that you have so many answers within you and start really listening! 

How many times have you got a feeling about something and ignored it only to kick yourself later for not listening? 

I know you may think to yourself. “How do I know if that's just my mind playing tricks on me?” The key is the more you use and listen to your intuition, the clearer it will get. 

Think about those times when you wished you had listened, how did it feel when it came to you? Really pay attention to the feelings and sensations you get when you get a feeling or inspiration. You can use those later to identify an intuitive inspiration. 

Writing it down can also be helpful. But really pay attention closely to everything that goes on inside you. There is always a pattern and there are always clues. Start really noticing them and putting those clues together. It's like puzzle pieces they may not seem like much separate but once you put them together it makes sense! 

When you hear that voice inside you, listen to it and pay attention to how it feels. You have so much more power and answers inside you than you realize. Start opening up to it and see the difference it makes in your life.

2. Meditation

Frequent meditation is very helpful to open up your intuition. Meditation helps to get rid of unnecessary and racing thoughts and helps the messages come in clearer plus so many other benefits. It takes time but being consistent with it makes a huge difference. 

Even just a little each day helps. Even just some quiet time to yourself to reflect can help. If you keep going and never stop to actually listen, it can be very hard to connect to your intuition. You need time and space to stop and hear the messages that are always coming through. If you never stop to listen how can you hear them? 

3. Align better to your purpose gift and who you are at soul level

The more you use your purpose gift, the more you become your true self which brings you closer to your intuition. There is always more of your purpose gift you can add in your life and a deeper level of it. Align to who you are at soul level so you can connect better. 

The farther away you are from your purpose and who you are at soul level, the harder it is to connect to your intuition. Not being your true self causes blocks in the way and just makes it harder. So putting more focus into aligning and using your purpose gift on a deeper level will make your intuition so much stronger. 

So get in touch with you so you can get in touch with your intuition and use it to your benefit. It's a gift we all have access to why not take advantage? 

If you don't know your purpose gift or who you are at soul level yet I can find that out for you and more in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

I want to see you grow and prosper and stay on the right path for you and listening to and using your intuition makes all the difference!  

Everyone has the opportunity to go on their highest path possible in this lifetime but you must choose to take it and use all the tools available to you. Your intuition is one of your most valuable tools so don't ignore it!

You have so much inside of you that you can unlock to help you! Are you ready to turn that key and start listening?

The 3 Most Common Ways People Block Themselves From Finding Real Love

There are three common blocks that come through over and over for people looking for love so I wanted to write about them so you can avoid them. If you are looking for love be sure to look deep and make sure you aren't getting in your own way of real love! Here are the three most common blocks to real love:

1. Holding onto the past 

When you are still holding onto the past or a past love that stops you from moving forward. Any ties to the past literally keep you tied there. Those ties can never allow you to move forward in any way, they will always pull you back. Those ties physically, mentally and emotionally hold you back and block not only love but other things you want to move forward. 

Really look deep and tie up any loose ends and close any open doors. All doors must be closed and locked tight in order to open any new ones. 

There are many ways to be stuck in the past. It could be still holding out hope an old love will come back, or literally still seeing your ex and not fully letting go. It could be reliving something you wish you did differently in the past or reliving your "glory days." You can create even better times ahead but not if you are still stuck in the past and think those were your best times. 

There are so many ways to be blocked by not letting go of the past so be really mindful and be sure you aren't holding onto the past in anyway. Let go so you can move forward to better, to real love! 

2. Mistreating themselves

This is a big one. If you are mistreating yourself or putting yourself last you can only attract others that will mistreat you and put you last as well. Real love would not mistreat you so this leads to never being able to attract real love. Martyrs cannot attract real love so remember that. Don't put yourself down or last. 

Remember the oxygen mask must go on you first! You must treat yourself right and respect yourself in order to attract real love. Look at how you see yourself and treat yourself. Start treating yourself like you want your love to treat you. 

Cherish and truly love yourself. Happiness and confidence are big love attraction magnets. Love yourself so you can find someone that truly loves you as well. 

3. Staying with someone they shouldn’t for way too long

This is another one. People tend to try to make a relationship work and hope it will change far after they should have left. The longer you stay and accept things you shouldn't, the more of that you will attract into your life so it becomes a vicious cycle. 

If a relationship is not working for you after trying to work on it then let it go. The longer you stay, the worse it gets and the longer until you can find your real love.

Staying where you aren't happy only tells the universe that you want that so more things you aren't happy about will show up in your life in all areas. Our choices create our lives so only choose what you do want and show the universe what you really want instead of what you don't want. 

What we allow or accept is basically ordering more of it onto our lives. So don't accept or allow anything you don't want. Create what you do want instead of more of what you don't want. Look carefully what are you accepting or putting up with that you shouldn't be? 

Work on these things so you can attract a real love. Don't get in the way of love, get ready for love! 

If you'd like help finding and clearing what's blocking you from love and more I can help you in a Finding Love Reading And Clearing. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/finding-love-reading-and-clearing

I also have plenty of other love related readings for whatever part of your love journey you are on. All the choices are here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop

4 Things You Must Do When Trying To Manifest Something

1. Be sure you really want it

This may seem obvious but you would be surprised. So many think they want it because society or their family says they should but deep down they don't really want it. So be sure that deep down you really want what you are trying to manifest and you aren't just lying to yourself.

It's just a waste of time and energy trying to manifest something you don't really want when you could be manifesting something you do want! 

2. Be ready and prepared for it

Whatever your goal, it's important that you are prepared and can handle it or you won't be able to manifest it. So for example if you are trying to manifest a lot of money but you can't even handle your finances properly now then you are blocking yourself from manifesting more. So be sure to take care of what you have now so you can prove that you are ready to receive more.

Another example is love. If you want to manifest love do you have time and energy to give to a partner? You must always make the time first to prove you are ready. Never say "oh I'll make changes once I manifest." The key is you must make the changes first in order to manifest! 

Another example is if you are trying to manifest a specific job are you free those hours to work. Can you get there? Are you prepared to move if needed? 

Really look at how your life would be different once you manifest what you want and make changes now to get ready and usher it in to you.

3. Start thinking and acting like you already manifested it

Really think about what you would do differently in your life if you already manifested your desired outcome. Start changing what you do to match that. That helps to change your vibration to match what you want. You can never do the same things and get something different. The actions you are taking now are getting you what you have now. So start taking the actions that match your desired outcome instead! 

So for instance if you are trying to manifest a job would you dress different for that job then you do now? Start dressing that way now to change your vibration to match the job. 

Or would you wear makeup or dress different once you found your love? Start doing those things now to help attract that. Start doing what you would do once you have reached your goal.

4. What you want must not go against your purpose gift or who you are at soul level

Trying to manifest something that is against your purpose and who you are at soul level is futile. So when working on manifesting or anything in life for that matter, always be sure it aligns with your purpose gift and who you are at soul level. 

That also goes back to really wanting what you are manifesting as well because if your soul doesn't want it then you can't manifest it. So just be sure you aren't getting in your own way by trying to manifest something that goes against who you are at soul level. 

If you don't already know your purpose gift and who you are at soul level I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

So overall be sure you really want whatever you are trying to manifest, be prepared for it, and start acting like you already manifested it! 

Manifesting is different for each person. Everyone has their own unique manifesting code which is basically a cheat sheet on how you personally manifest. What works for one person will actually block manifesting for another person so it's important to know and use your specific code when manifesting. 

If you don't know your code I can find out for you in a Manifesting Blueprint Reading. To get one go here: 

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How Using Your Purpose Gift Gives You Energy And Helps All Areas Of Your Life

We all can use more energy but so many don't know how to get it. The good news is it's all within our choices that we can get that influx of energy into our lives. Here is how. 

Vital force energy is the key to our health and energy. It is what we thrive on or get depleted from if we aren't getting any. We get vital force energy by our choices and by living true to who we are at soul level and our purpose gift.

The more aligned you are to your purpose gift, the more open you are to receive vital force energy. Picture it like a hose. If you are making choices that are keeping you misaligned from your purpose you kink the hose and less and less vital force energy can get through. The more aligned choices you make and the more you use your purpose gift, the more open that hose gets and more of that wonderful vital force energy comes through. 

That vital force energy is your spark, your passion, your happiness, your health, your vitality, your everything. Lack of vital force energy leads to illness, feeling drained, and lots of other issues. So when these things happen it's important to always put more focus into using your purpose gift more so you can allow more vital force energy in. 

We are here to express our true selves and when we are not using our purpose gift and not aligned to who we are at soul level we can't get enough vital force energy which causes lack in our life. The more we get the better. So use that gift and in kink that hose! That is what you are here for!

There is always more of your purpose gift you can add into your life. There is always a deeper level so always be open to looking into how you can add more and more to get an even better life. 

Our bodies need vital force energy but unfortunately we tend to make choices in our lives that block it from coming in without even realizing it. We all should and can be healthy with lots of energy but it's up to us to make those choices and to let that unlimited vital force energy in! 

Any choices you make that go against who you are at soul level and your purpose gift, will cancel out the right choices so always be mindful of that. Always look closely at all your choices and be sure they align to your purpose gift. 

If you don't know your purpose gift yet, I can find out for you and find and clear what's blocking you from it in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

For those that know their purpose gift, really take the time to up level and start using it more. Especially look at things you do everyday, those can make the most impact. Look into adding your purpose gift into everything from how you do the dishes and organize your house to how you care for your kids, in your relationships, and how you work. 

Every single part of your life can contain your purpose gift in some way. The more you use it, the better your life will get in all areas. You can never be fully abundant in any area of your life, including financially and in love, if you are not using your purpose gift. 

Your purpose gift is your secret key to life. I honestly don't know how people survive without knowing it. Before I knew mine it was like living life in the dark and everything feeling out of my control. But once I knew it and aligned to it I was then in the light and can now control and create my life exactly how I want through my choices.

Give yourself the gift of energy and anything else you want to create in your life! 

Your purpose gift is the key but you must use it! I challenge all of you to take that effort to use it more, it will be well worth it! You deserve energy and happiness! 

Here's How To Notice The Lessons, Signs, And Synchronicities As They Appear In Your Life

All of us have lessons, signs, and synchronicities happening in our lives all around us everyday. Unfortunately not everyone is tuned in to them and actually notices them. If you do notice them it can be a helpful road map through life. Here's how to look deeper and notice when they come up for you.

When lessons or little nuggets of help come through it will never be completely spelled out for you so it's important to be open and look a little deeper. Sometimes they will show up through a song or something a stranger says to you or just a thought or feeling. 

There is always another level of perception in your life that you can attain by being open and just listening deeper with all your senses. The first step is just being aware that so much more is going on behind the surface. Our spirit guides and our choices are always creating lessons and nuggets for us below the surface. 

So start by being aware and just noticing things on a deeper level. It helps to write things down to keep track so you can look back and see later. Hindsight is a great tool to see what something meant for you so you learn the language and can listen to it right away next time. 

Notice any feelings or thoughts you get. Notice things around you and any patterns. It can show up in any way at any time so be patient with yourself. 

Notice if you ignore your intuition what happens? Usually something hard will be thrown in your path to remind you that you didn't listen and need to do something different for your best interest. 

The thought may usually seem silly and you may think "Why would I do that?" But overtime you will see there is a very good reason and if you listen it will save you a lot of trouble in the long run.

We all have free will and our spirit guides cannot get in the way of that, but they can help us get to where we want to go with a less bumpier path if we choose to listen. 

Some people will notice number sequences like for instance "1111". The thing is the meaning is different for each person there is no one size fits all so it can be tricky. 

If you get number sequences a lot I can find out what your guides are trying to tell you in a  General Reading. In the questions section just put what number sequences you would like to find out about or anything for that matter. You can get a General Reading here: 

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You can also talk to your guides and create symbols and signs for them to send you. For instance if I see this come up it means this etc. But just be very specific and clear or you can end up causing confusion. 

We also chose certain lessons we wanted to learn this time on earth. Those are also always showing up behind the scenes all the time. If you don't know what they are it can be easy to miss and may take much longer to complete them.

I have a Life Lesson Reading available where I can find out all your specific life lessons, how they are showing up for you now, and how complete you are with them. You can get that reading here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/life-lesson-reading

And for those that already know their life lessons and want to check their progress since last time, I can find out for you in a Life Lesson Recheck Reading. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/life-lesson-re-check-reading

It's impossible to list all the ways the signs come through there are so many and it differs for each person. It could be through a bird or a butterfly, or an obstacle telling you to look deeper and make changes. Any roadblock that comes up for you look deeper at, there is a reason. 

Everything has a perfect flow, a reason, and a deeper meaning. If you look deeper you can see it and everything in life will make so much more sense. Without listening to these signs and nudges it can feel like you are going through life blind. 

So really start paying attention and opening up to all the help you are being given all around you. As you pay attention, open up, and listen to your intuition more and more it gets easier and easier. It makes life much easier and less bumpy, but only if you actually listen and follow the signs. 

So today open up and look deeper at what is showing up for you to help you. It's there just listen! 

How Trust Issues Can Sabotage Your Relationship And How To Fix It

Unfortunately most of us can sabotage things in our lives without even realizing. Here is why trust issues sabotage your relationship and how to fix it. 

Trust issues are the number one problem that damages relationships. Whether you have them from a past relationship or they are a new thing for you, they are harmful to all relationships. 

Trust in a relationship is the most important thing. Without that, the relationship will eventually crumble. If you don't fully trust the person, you can't fully love them either. Trust and love go hand in hand. 

If you are having trust issues the first thing you need to do is look at the root. Did you have them before this relationship? Is this because of your lack of self esteem or confidence? Did your partner do some thing that made you lose that trust? Really look deep and find the root. You cannot fix it if you don't know the root.

It can be tricky because some people without realizing it may be blaming someone else for their trust issues when it's really because of their self esteem or something created from past relationships. So really be sure you know the root of the issues first and foremost. Be sure to be honest with yourself.

And on the other side of it if your partner doesn't trust you look deep at that as well. Did you do something to cause that lack of trust? Is it coming from their own insecurities? Knowing the truth is the first step to healing. 

The ironic thing is some relationships that both parties can be trusted can be completely ruined because of trust issues for no reason. So it's so important to really look deep and hone in on any trust issues and work on them.

So after you look deep and find the root, if the root stemmed from actions your partner took you need to make a decision. If they did something to make you lose trust you need to decide if you can fully forgive them or not. 

If you can't forgive them you need to let that relationship go. You can never have a truly healthy relationship if you are always holding that over them or always wondering about it in your mind. You either need to forgive them and completely let it go or end the relationship. 

If you want to forgive them and let it go,  really look at their actions since then. Are they really sorry? Have they made changes since? Have they tried their best to prove it to you? Don't just forgive them if you don't feel things have changed, that will only prolong your pain. 

You want a stable foundation to grow on, not one that could crumble at any time. Unfortunately many people stay in these situations way longer than they should and waste their time and end up more hurt in the long run. 

So really look deep at if you truly can forgive and be honest with yourself. Lying to yourself about it will only cause you more pain down the road. So remember you need to fully forgive and erase it from memory completely or end it. Those are the only 2 ways to have a healthy relationship. 

If you did something yourself to cause the trust issues look at the actions you have taken since. Have you proven your trust? Can you regain that trust back? What can you do to help heal things? 

Again, if you feel they will never trust you again no matter what, then it's time to move on and make those changes in your next relationship to stop that pattern. Really communicate with your partner and gauge whether that trust can ever be restored or not.

If you'd like some clarity about your relationship and to ask some questions about it to get some guidance I can help you in a Relationship Reading. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/relationship-reading

Now after looking deep, if you realize those trust issues are stemming from yourself and your own insecurities then it's so important to work on that. If you don't, you will only push your partner away and I don't want that for you! Too many good relationships end because of unfounded trust issues. 

Really get to the core and focus on what caused you to have these issues in the first place. Is it a past relationship? If so really try to clear the slate and let that go. Don't punish your partner for things someone else did, that's not fair. 

Is it stemming from your lack of self esteem and confidence? This is a very common issue. If this is the case, really put work into that and into yourself. We should all be confident in ourselves and when we aren't there are issues we need to work on. 

Don't compare yourself to others, look at yourself and all your great qualities and focus on those! Focus on creating a happy life for yourself and focus on your purpose,  that will help your confidence! 

If you need help with this I recommend a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. I can tell you your purpose gift and find and clear what is blocking you so you can move forward with confidence plus so much more. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

So no matter what the root is, trust issues will always destroy a relationship, it's only a matter of time. So find the root and really work through them so you can move forward and be happy! You deserve to be happy and can be! 

Here's Why And How To Stop The Same Things Happening Over And Over In Your Life

Do you have the same patterns repeating over and over in your life and want them to stop? Here's why that happens and how to stop.

If you have the same patterns repeating, for instance a new relationship but getting treated the same way as the last one or a new job but the same issues etc. there is a way to stop that but It all starts with you! 

Nothing just happens to you, your choices are attracting this over and over. The problem is most people don't realize it's their choices or even what choices are causing it.

The first step is to be aware of the pattern or patterns repeating over and over in your life. Some people aren't even conscious enough to notice there are patterns to begin with. If that's you, really make a point to pay more attention to anything repeating in your life. There is a reason this is happening. 

There is always some lesson or change you need to make when this happens. If you don't, the pattern will continue forever even into your next life so it's important to fix it now to save yourself a lot of trouble! 

Really look deep and learn the lesson and make the changes needed so you can get out of that pattern. For instance, if you are being treated badly by different people over and over look at how you are treating yourself and others, that will reflect how you are treated. Usually this happens when the person neglects or treats themselves bad and puts themselves last and that's what keeps attracting the same thing. 

So to get out of that pattern start treating yourself better and not allowing anyone to treat you bad. Be strong and cut it off at the first sign of them not treating you right. 

Always look to the root of what's going on. Look at your choices and how this pattern started. Don't ever look for someone else to change, it's always you that needs to make the changes. Your choices are what attracted that situation in the first place so changing those choices will get you out of that pattern and stop you from attracting similar in the future.

So the key is with any pattern you don't like in your life, look close at your choices and why you are attracting that. Sometimes just a simple change can make a huge difference and get you out of that pattern forever! 

Really think about your life, what changes would be good for you to make? Is there anyone that you should remove from your life? Are you not treating yourself right? Are you allowing or accepting less than you should?

So really ask yourself these questions and look at any patterns you aren't happy with. Really reflect on what YOU can do differently. It all starts with you. That is a beautiful thing because that means you have the complete power to create the life you want! Use your power and leave those patterns in the past! 

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6 Vital Things You Need To Find Happiness

Here are six things that are essential to finding happiness. Take care of these things you can find that happiness you crave. You can and should have happiness.

1. Living your purpose

If you aren't actively living your purpose, you aren't fully expressing yourself and cannot truly find happiness so this is a vital step towards finding happiness. Your soul exists to express your purpose and is so important.

Using your purpose gift and expressing yourself with it is why you are here. Without using your purpose gift, you can't find happiness or abundance in any area of your life. This needs to always be at the top of your list when wanting happiness or anything in your life. 

Everyday ask yourself "How can I add more of my purpose gift into my life today?" There is always another deeper level you can go to and more of your gift you can add. The more you add the more aligned you become and the more you will be inspired with new things to do to align with your gift even more. 

Also, be sure to eliminate anything in your life that is the opposite of or goes against your purpose gift. Anything that goes against your purpose gift will only cancel out any actions that align to your purpose gift so you won't get anywhere. 

So really look closely at every little action you take and be sure it aligns. You can use your purpose gift in everything you do from how you cook or brush your teeth to what you do for work. Your purpose gift should be a full lifestyle and should be the most important thing. 

It is an ongoing process and the more you use it the happier you will be. If you don't know your purpose gift, I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

2. Leave the past in the past

To find happiness you can't be living in the past. Happiness can only be found in the now not the past or future. Really make a point to let go of the past. 

Don't keep criticizing yourself for what you wish you did or others for what they should have done. It's over and can't be changed. Focus on what you can do now. Forgive yourself and others. Letting go of what is holding you to the past is very important to finding happiness. 

Create your best now instead, don't hold onto the past. Doing that literally ties you there and prevents you from ever moving forward and finding happiness now.

3. Do be a martyr 

It's so important to really live for you. If you put yourself last you can never find true happiness. You have to make yourself a priority to find happiness. 

When you are happy then everyone around you will be happier as well. But it is always your responsibility to make time for and make yourself a priority. Think about that and know that saying no to something you don't want is a big part of finding happiness and is okay! 

4. Make a plan and take action 

Be sure to schedule and plan out things you want. Don't just dream or talk about them, really start doing them. They will never happen or just fall into your lap, you have to plan and take action to create them. 

Sometimes even taking the first small step towards a goal can create so much peace and happiness in itself. Trust yourself, know you can do it and just start. No excuses! You are the only one blocking you from your dreams and have the power to make them happen! 

5. Celebrate

It's so important to celebrate and appreciate successes you have already achieved. Always take time to look at how far you have come. 

So many focus on what they still need or haven't achieved yet but allow yourself time to revel in what you have accomplished. The more you celebrate your successes, the more likely you are to have more in the future.

And when you talk down or criticize yourself you will only attract more things to be critical of. So really watch how you react to things and focus on what you have achieved and accomplished and only learn from what hasn't gone right. 

Sometimes learning the lesson from a failure is the biggest accomplishment and the biggest goal achieved. So don't be so hard on yourself and focus on all the positives. What you focus on grows so always be mindful of that when creating the life you want.  

6. Don't look outside yourself

Happiness can only be found inside yourself. No one else can make you happy but you. You have to find that inner love for yourself first. Once you do that all your relationships will be so much better and happier. 

If you aren't happy with you no one else will be either. So really focus on and work on you. Work through anything that is holding you back. You are the only thing in your way to finding happiness. 

Don't focus on what others are doing, focus on your choices and what you are allowing them to do. Always know you are in control of who is in your life and create better boundaries if needed.

That happiness is already within you, you just need to connect with it. You should be happy so if you aren't really take stock of your life and make any necessary changes. If you aren't happy that is always a sign that you need to make changes in your life. 

Don't just settle into the unhappiness and think it has to be that way. Know that you fully deserve and can achieve that true happiness. You have full control so use it and grab your happiness! 

How To Know If You Are On The Right Path

Life can be a struggle and from one day to the next you may question if you are on the right path or not. Here are some ways to find out if you are.

The first thing is most people already know when they are or aren't in the right path. It's that deep inner knowing. You may ignore it or try to hide from it but inside you know. So if you are questioning whether you are or not you are on the right path you probably aren't. 

When you are on the right path there is this inner knowing and a feeling of always being in the right place at the right time. Serendipitous and perfect synchronicities just always happen to show you you are on the right path. There is also always this inner excitement and drive to keep going further down that path. 

There are many ways we can choose to be on the right path. There is not one singular path, there are many we can choose from. We are here to express ourselves how we choose by using our purpose gift. We have free will to choose which path is right for us. 

The key is no matter what you do that you use your purpose gift. You can use that purpose gift in the way you choose, but as long as you are using it you are on the right path. 

The more you use your purpose gift the happier and better your life gets. It is more like levels, you can still be on your path but may not be too far on it. The farther you go the better. It happens in stages. As you add more of your purpose gift into your life, then opportunities to add even more come up and if you choose to accept them then you will get farther down your path. 

So even if you may not be completely happy yet that doesn't mean you aren't on your path. The path gets more beautiful as you go. You find more peace, knowing, and certainty that everything is right as you go. Having that is such an amazing gift and I want everyone to have that. We all can have that, we all can have it all. 

We all started from the same place with the same opportunities. But over many lives our choices have either brought us further on our path or set is back. Usually it's a little of both. 

Our choices created exactly where we are now but the good news is our choices can take us to where we want to go. If you don't know your purpose and want to know what choices are blocking you from moving forward and get them cleared I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: 

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One way to know that you aren't on the right path is if there are a lot of repeating negative patterns. So perhaps you get a new person in your life but they do the same negative things to you the last one did. This happens because you keep doing something that is attracting that which is keeping you off your path.

Another way to know is when you feel like you keep getting blocked no matter what you try. At first your spirit guides will give you a light tap to warn you that you are going in the wrong direction but if you don't listen to that light tap it becomes stronger and stronger until you are hitting a brick wall. 

Since we have free will our spirit guides cannot stop us from making a choice but they can warn us strongly. If you listen to those warnings, your life will be much easier.  If you'd like to know more about your spirit guides so you know when they are trying to help you, that info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/spirit-guide-profile-reading

So really pay attention when you keep being stopped, that means you are going the wrong way and that choice isn't right for you. Now obstacles aren't always blocks so that can be difficult to distinguish. As we make new choices towards our path dissonance will always happen like mishaps and things just going wrong at the wrong time. 

That dissonance is actually a good sign and just shows you that you are closer to your goal and you need to keep going to push through that. So don't confuse dissonance, which is a good sign and means you are changing and closer to your goal, with guidance from your guides. 

Dissonance happens when you are actively making changes to achieve your goal and guidance from your guides will be an ongoing thing that keeps happening as you keep going in the wrong direction and will get stronger and harder as you go. Dissonance will stop once you reach your goal. 

The best way to know if something is right for you is to ask yourself if it is aligned with your purpose gift. Ideally you want everything in your life to align even including how you cook a meal or how you get ready. Your purpose gift should encompass everything you do, not just work. 

The more you use your purpose gift, the happier and and more abundant you will be in all areas of your life. You can never be abundant in your life if you aren't using your purpose gift. Without using your purpose gift,  life will always be a struggle but the more you use it the easier your life gets. 

That constant struggle in life is to show you that something is wrong and you need to start using your gift. Struggle is just a sign to make some changes but unfortunately so many get stuck in that struggle and think that's just how life is and it won't change. It can change so just use any struggle as guidance to get back on your path! 

Don't just resign to and stay stuck in the struggle! I don't want that for you! Use it as a tool to get out of it and back on your path! 

I want all of you to be on your path so embrace and use your purpose gift thoroughly! Your purpose gift is your path. It's your choice how you use it but as long as you are using it you are on your path. The more you use it the farther down your path and better you will be! 

Using your purpose gift not only makes you happy but everyone around you as well. Use your gift and help the world! No matter how far off of your path you are right now, you can choose to get right back on it at any time! 

6 Things Not To Do If You Want To Find Love

1. Don't treat yourself bad

Neglecting yourself and putting yourself last is a sure fire way to attract someone that will neglect you and put you last as well. So start treating yourself how you want to be treated! Always make time for yourself. No negative self talk! 

2. Don't allow others to treat you wrong

When you allow others in your life that aren't treating you right, you are telling the universe that's what you want and you will attract more of it. Instead be sure to not allow anything you don't want in your life. At the first red flag put up your boundaries and stop it right in its tracks. 

What you allow is what you are putting out into the universe saying "I want this". So really be sure you aren’t allowing any thing or any one in your life that you don't really want or you will only attract more of what you don't want. 

3. Don't be obsessed with finding love

When you are so consumed with finding love it actually puts out a desperate energy out there which actually repels love. The key to finding love is getting to a happy place within yourself where you don't need it, that's when it comes to you. 

So really focus on yourself and on what you want. Create a happy life for yourself and then that love will come to you and be the cherry on top. 

Get to a point where you realize you don't need love because you have all you need within yourself. Happiness has to come from within first. The happier you are and the more you don't need love, the more it is attracted to you. 

4. Don't live in a fairy tale

Never seek or expect someone to save you that can't attract real love. Know you can only save yourself. Fairy tale dreams of a prince saving you only harm your possibility for real love. 

Create your own fairy tale yourself on your own, you have that power. Be your own fairy tale and then that wonderful love will come. So focus on you and on creating your own happiness not expecting someone else to, then love will come. 

5. Don't worry yourself about time constraints 

This can be hard especially for women worrying about their biological clock ticking and pressure to get married. But that worry and desperate energy repel love and make it take even longer to come to you. 

So try not to worry about a time frame. Focus on what is in your control in your life. Create happiness in all areas of your life that you can. That happiness and confidence attracts love, not a desperate need to hurry. Trust that it will work out and concentrate on what you can do. 

6. Don't settle

When you settle in any area of your life you are saying you don't want better and want less than. Really look at what you are settling on in your life and make changes. You don't have to settle and when you choose to you only attract more circumstances where you have to settle which includes your love life. 

If you'd like help to find and clear the specific issues blocking you from love I can help you in a Finding Love Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/finding-love-reading-and-clearing

How To Connect With Your Spirit Guides To Help Your Life

Our spirit guides are always there to help us. But there are ways that we can help them to help us better. Here's how.

First of all it's important to know that they are always there to help but you run the show. They are there to help you but cannot go against your wishes even if it could harm you. 

They cannot interfere with your free will. They will try their best to give you signs and steer you away from harm but your choices are always in control. You are always in control. You are always driving the car, they are more of a backseat passenger that's trying to help you. 

They have a bigger perspective from where they are and can see things that you may not be able to. That's why building the best relationship you can with them can be so helpful. If you are really connected to them it can be sort of like a cheat sheet through life and can save a lot of mishaps and trouble, if you listen that is. 

Most people get so many signs from them that they just ignore or down play. Be sure to always listen to any intuition messages you get or feelings. Start trusting yourself and your guides more. The more you trust yourself and your intuition, the stronger and more helpful it gets. 

At first, try to set up a specific consistent time to connect with them. Many like to do this right before bed or first thing in the morning because connection can be easier. Just sort of meditate with an intention of connecting to them. Really be open and pay attention to any thoughts and feelings. Keep a journal and write anything you get down. Looking back on what you write down can be so helpful later on. 

It may not make sense in that moment but after time has passed it will be clearer and make more sense. And seeing things in hindsight can help you to see the messages in the right way ahead of time next time. It's like learning the language of your guide and becoming fluent in it to make things easier for you. There is a dance and learning process that is important just like in any relationship. 

Over time you will start to remember what their presence feels like so when they are trying to help you, you can pick up on it easier. 

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As you get more comfortable with your guides, use the time to connect with them to be really clear on what you want. The clearer and more specific you are, the better they can help you.  

One thing that is very important is to make sure your actions line up with your thoughts about what you want. Our actions and what we physically do will always outweigh our thoughts. 

So if you are telling your guides you want a partner that treats you right but are allowing and staying with a partner that doesn't treat you right, your guides can only help you stay with someone that treats you wrong because that's what you are showing you really want. 

Our free will can never be interfered with so what your actions are showing you want is what your guide will help you to continue with. This can also cause us to hire a negative spirit guide to help us do things that aren't good for us which can be frustrating. 

So it's vital to really be sure your actions match up with what you really want. Don't say you want one thing but do something that doesn't match that. And what and who you allow around you is a big part of our actions speaking for us. Don't allow anyone or anything around you that doesn't match up with what you want. 

So if you are really clear with them on what you want and are taking actions to match that, then your guides can help you tremendously! Like everything in life, being clear on what you want and showing that in your actions is so important. 

So really open up to and connect with your guides, it is so beneficial. The more you do,  the more help you can get from them. So use your power and free will with your guides' help and create the life you want now! You are in control! 

4 Steps To Create The Life You Want

We all can create the lives we want. So many settle and think they have to stick with the life they have but that's not true. There is always a way to start towards the life you really want. Here are some tips to get there. 

1. Know what you want. 

The first and most important thing is to know what you do want and what you don't want. You can not create without having at the least an idea of what you want to start with. 

Even if you don't know for sure, focus on what you think you want and start working towards it. As you get closer if you realize you don't want that anymore let that be okay. That will help you to further narrow down what you do want. 

It's so important to be clear on what you want, if not then what you want will be decided for you and you won't be happy. So really take time to focus on getting clear on what you want. The clearer you are, the more your spirit guides can help you with it. 

Indecision is a sure way to feel stuck and you don't want that. Some people stay stuck in indecision because they are perfectionists and are afraid of making the wrong choice. The only real wrong choice is not making one at all. If you never make a choice you can never move forward and can never create the life you want. 

Even the wrong choice will help you tremendously. It helps you to figure out what you don't want and to get clearer on what you do want. So let go of that fear to make a decision and start going for it! That is the only way to have the life you really want! 

If you feel stuck and indecisive, doing something, anything out of your comfort zone can help to open up your creative energy and get your thoughts flowing. Really focus on what you want and what makes you happy. 

2. Elimination 

We all have a certain amount of time and in order to put what we want in our lives we must cut out some things that we can replace with what we want. 

So first start with what don't you want that's in your life? What do you feel just obligated to do? Obligation is never good for anyone and always takes you off of your path. Know that you can say no! 

Really work towards eliminating things that you really don't want to do. There is always a way to make a change. It may take time to implement but just starting towards it makes a huge difference. Your time is precious,  fill it with what makes you happy and with what is fulfilling the rest is not important!

Also look into who you are around in your life. Even just one negative person can create a huge issue in your life. Work towards being only around those that lift you up not bring you down or cause drama. Just allowing one of those people in your life will cause you to attract more of that. 

It's your life and you can choose who you want to be around no matter the person is to you. Yes it may be hard but is being miserable forever really worth it instead of taking the hard step to move forward from them? 

Really look at who or what is holding you back and work towards eliminating them/it from your life. You have the power to create that happy life and sometimes that takes some hard choices but it is worth it. A little while of a hard choice is worth forever with peace and happiness. 

Also look at what you are doing in your life that is unnecessary. So many think that they just HAVE to do everything but that's not true. Really see what you can cut back on or eliminate to give yourself more time for what you do want. Work with your happiness and fulfillment in all areas of your life as your main focus! 

3. Plan

Once you know what you do want and eliminate what you don't want, now it's time to start planning. Really plan ahead and schedule in what you do want to be sure you can do it. Make it important and put it on your calendar. 

So many think what they want isn't important enough to schedule and then they never get to it. But in fact that is the most important thing! We are here on earth to experience and express ourselves so that really should be number one on all of our lists! 

Also think ahead about the steps it will take to create what you want. Do you need to go back to school or get more training for that dream job? Do you need to finally make time for that hobby you so enjoy? Do you need time for you to just rest and read a book? 

Whatever it is, break it down into steps and start towards it one step at a time. Don't overwhelm yourself thinking of all the steps it will take, just focus on one step at a time and before you know it you will reach your goal! 

Just starting in the right direction can be so fulfilling just in itself and can give you lots of momentum. So take time to plan out and schedule the steps to get to the life you want. No excuses! 

4. Implement 

Now start implementing your plan! You have that time scheduled in now so do it! As you do, pay attention if you need to make any tweaks or changes. Your life is always a work in progress so keep making changes until you get it exactly how you want! 

Always be open to seeing anything you aren't happy with and start to change that. Keep tweaking until you get it right. As you do you will start to notice when something doesn't feel right right away and you can eliminate it quickly. Once you get into that flow of the life you want it will get easier and easier to maintain that.

You are important and you are here to experience what you want. You and only you have the power to have that life you want so use it! Don't stand in the way of your happiness! 

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Here's The Low Down On Past Lives

Here is some information about past lives to help give you some clarity and help you in this present life. 

We all have had many past lives. We have all been both male and female, many ethnicities, and gay, straight etc. We choose what we are in each life by what will help us most with what we need in that life. 

Also where we start out depends on where we left off last in our last life which is what we always resonate to when we start our next life. No matter what we always start off energetically where we left off last time. 

So for instance if you are born into an abusive situation in this life it's because in the last life you were choosing to abuse yourself in some form. Nothing ever just happens to us, we attract it because of our choices. The good news is we can always change our choices to attract better!

We cannot remember our past lives while on earth because it would be way too much for us to remember all at once and would distract us from the life we are in now. 

We all have lived hundreds of lives and have been through many things so remembering all that at once would be confusing and would distract us from what we are supposed to learn. It's hard enough keeping track of this life, imagine having information for hundreds of lives all at once? That would be very daunting!

Sometimes during life we will get a flash of a past life. This only happens if it's important and will help you in the current life you are in. For instance in this life you may have a strong fear of choking and then you find out you were choked to death in a previous life. This can help you to let go of that fear and realize that fear is left over from a past life and it's over now and you can let that go. 

The life we are in now is what matters the most and what we need to concentrate on. So we don't want to be distracted by meaningless things from our past lives. 

But getting information on patterns we are still in from past lives can be so helpful in this life. Knowing why and when they started can sometimes be enough in itself to finally stop the pattern.

If you would like info on what can help you now from your past lives you can find out in a Past Life Reading: 

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Once we cross over, we will remember all of our lives and everyone in them again. It will be like no time has passed. We usually incarnate with the same souls over and over but in different forms. So for instance in one life a soul may be your mother but in the next life that same soul could be your son etc. 

Our past lives are over so while we are on earth there is no need to remember them for the most part other than what can help us in this present life. 

Sometimes we may have some fears stuck from them that stay with us and hold us back so moving forward with that can be so freeing! 

All of our past lives have molded us to who we are now. We learned from our past lives and that's what helped to make us who we are today. 

After each life we take our knowledge and growth with us but leave the rest behind. Only our spirit, soul, and our subconscious come with us each time. Our spirit is our soul, our subconscious is everything except our body that goes with us to the other side and to earth each time.

Sometimes when we hear about something from the past and feel very connected to it, it could mean we are picking up on something from a past life. When I was in second grade we were studying Egypt and hieroglyphics. 

I was very interested in it which I usually wasn't interested in anything else in school at that time. I found out later that in one of my lives I studied in a pyramid school in Egypt. So that intense eagerness to learn everything about Egypt at the time makes sense now. 

So when you have that strong connection to something it's very possible it's from a past life. So love everything you have been through in all your lives because that is what makes you who you are now. 

Now focus on making this life even better so you can start off in an even better place next time around. It is all on your control so make this life great! 

How To Make Choices That Create The Life You Actually Want

It's most often the little choices you don't even think about that are affecting your life the most. So many are creating a life they don't want without realizing they are doing it. Here is how to change that. 

Our choices create our life not our heart or our thoughts. Our thoughts help us think about what we want to create but our physical action choices are what actually create our life.

You can think about making nachos but they will not just appear until you actually take the actions to make or buy them. Physical choices create physical circumstances. 

I want to give some examples of choices that can create your life without intending to. 

So let's say you are in a relationship with someone that is treating you bad. This can be in any form from not respecting you or your time to full fledged abuse or anywhere in between. 

When you continue to allow it and stay in that relationship you are telling the universe that's what you want and more situations like that will come into your life. But if you cut the relationship off at the first red flag you are showing the universe you don't accept or allow that in your life and you will not attract more of that. 

What you are allowing in your life is how you are showing the universe you want more of. Most people don't realize this and continue suffering through and more and more of what they don't want shows up. They tell themselves "If I just suffer through a little longer hopefully it will get better." But it's only by changing your actions to not allow that anymore is what will make it better. 

Suffering through something just attracts more things in your life to suffer through. Through your choices you are telling the universe that you like suffering through things so the universe says "As you wish" and sends more things for you to suffer through your way. You have free will and only you can create your life so use it to your advantage! 

It's important to be really clear about your boundaries. Know what you won't allow and be strong and stick to that so you don't let any of that energy start to creep in your life. Once it creeps in then more and more will pile on until you stop it. Suffering through something or continuing to struggle through only attracts more of that into your life. 

Every single thing in your life now you created by your choices. Knowing that is so powerful because once you realize that you can make choices to create what you do want instead.

It's important to really dissect all the choices you are making to make sure the consequences are what you do want in your life. 

If there is something or someone in your life you aren’t happy with, start taking steps to change that. There is always a way. Being a martyr and suffering through only attracts more misery to your life. Start creating your life how you want! 

If you need help seeing what choices are stopping you from creating what you want I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here:

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To get to the root of your issues really look at the energy of your choices. Are you doing anything out of obligation? Any obligation is like poison and will always get you off of your path. Really assert your control over your life and start working towards cutting out what you don't want and adding more of what you do want. 

The energy behind the choices you make is key. So let's say you want more peace in your life. If you don't have that now that means you are making choices that are the opposite of peace. So perhaps you are choosing to engage with people that aren't peaceful or you aren't allowing time for yourself to have some peace and unwind or ate piling too much on your plate etc. 

So look at where you aren't happy in life and know you have the power to make those changes to create what you do want. Your life is like clay, mold it how you want.

What are you suffering through or allowing in your life that you don't want? Start cutting out things that have the energy you don't want and start adding things that do have the energy you want. 

Don't just suffer through and get by, you don't have to do that! Create that happiness in your life, you are the only one that can do that! 

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7 Things To Do To Help Your Self Esteem

1. Don't compare yourself to others

We all started this life at a different point in our journey. Comparing yourself to anyone else is like comparing apples and oranges so don't torture yourself like that. You can use others to help motivate you to go further but never compare where you are to where someone else is, there is no comparison. 

2. Make small goals

If you make huge goals and never reach them that takes a toll on your self esteem.  Break your goals down into more manageable ones. The more you reach a goal you set for yourself, the better your self esteem will get. 

Don't set yourself up for failure with an unreachable goal. Know you can do anything you want to but start with a little at a time. As you keep conquering all your goals your self esteem will rise. 

3. Make yourself a priority 

If you put yourself last, that is telling yourself and the universe that you are not important. Make yourself important! Know that you deserve to be put first and take actions that show that! 

If you put yourself last you will attract others that put you last as well. So take care of yourself and know that you are worthy of that! 

4. Let go of negative self talk

The more you talk down to and about yourself, the more you start to believe it. It can take time and effort to dig yourself out of that hole if this pattern has gone on for a while. 

The first step is to be aware and notice when you are talking or thinking down about yourself and stop yourself and redirect your thought. If you keep catching and stopping yourself it will get less and less overtime. 

Next, purposely start talking and thinking good about yourself. Focus on your great qualities and constantly remind yourself of them. Replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and overtime your self esteem will increase. 

5. Forgive yourself for past mistakes 

This is a huge one that most people are guilty of. We all make mistakes, that is how we learn. Don't punish yourself forever for a mistake you made. You are not your mistakes! 

Every mistake is a gift and teaches us something. Take the knowledge you learned but leave the rest behind. Forgive yourself so you can move forward. Start with where you are now and move forward. Punishing yourself will only keep you stuck and make your self esteem worse. 

6. Focus on change

Anything you are not happy about, start focusing on changing it going forward. Create your life how you want to. Your life is like clay, you have the power to mold it how you want to. 

Don't allow yourself to stay stuck in circumstances you don't want that never helps your self esteem. Show yourself how great you really are by creating the life you really want. You have all the power in the world but you must use it! 

Don't allow yourself to wallow in what's wrong, start taking steps to correct it! Even just one small step towards making positive changes can make you feel so much better. The more you tailor your life to what you want, the better your self esteem will be. Show yourself how much power you really have over your life and take control. 

When things feel off listen to yourself and change them. You never have to stay stuck in something you don't want. If you need help moving forward in any area of your life I have lots of reading, clearing, and coaching choices available to help you with where you are now. All the choices are here:

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7. See yourself through others eyes

We all can be our worst critics. Take some time to really see yourself through the eyes of those that love you, even through your pets eyes. We can see everything wrong when we look through our own eyes, but those that love us focus on everything that is right. 

Something that seems horrible to you is usually not even something someone that loves you even notices! So start seeing yourself through the eyes of love instead of the eyes of criticism and build on that! Love yourself and know you are amazing! 

Know that you are perfect how you are. Your soul has been refined over many lives and has been through a lot. Celebrate all you have endured and how strong you are. 

Believe in yourself and know you are already amazing. If you knew the full story of all your lives you would worship yourself for all you have accomplished. So see the bigger picture and start worshiping yourself today and know you are worthy! You are amazing right now, know that and can keep building on that! 

How To Remove Drama From Your Life

Drama can be annoying and distracting and is not a productive energy to have in your life. It can be frustrating and can feel like there is no way out sometimes. The good news is that as in everything in your life you do have full control over it. Here is how to take control and cut drama out of your life.

The first thing is to know that if there is ongoing drama, you are allowing and attracting it into your life most likely without realizing it. So look into who brings drama into your life repeatedly. Know that if they keep doing it that you are allowing it. 

If you don't want drama you need to energetically starve that situation. That means not talk about it with that person and just not allow it in your life period. Don't give it the time of day.

A lot of times this calls for cutting people out of our lives no matter who they are. Remember this drama is distracting you from your purpose so it's important to not be around it for your growth and in order to move forward in life. 

Just the act of engaging in someone's drama will actually attract more drama into your life which will become a vicious cycle. You must stop it at the roots. 

Boundaries are so important and need to be upheld firmly. Be strong that you will not allow any drama into your life. As you eliminate it and show the universe you don’t want it then you will stop attracting it. Really look at any situations in your life that have drama and chaos. Start actively working on changing those situations and know you have full control to do so. 

Purposely add more peace into your life. More peace will attract more peace and is an antidote for drama. More drama and chaos will only attract more of the same. By allowing it in your life in any form you are giving an open invitation for it to creep into every part of your life. 

Be very vigilant with what you allow in all areas of your life. Get out of any toxic relationships that will always bring drama in your life and keep you stuck. If drama is in your life you are attracting it with your choices so really look at all your choices. Do you stay in a toxic work environment? In a toxic relationship? Keep a toxic friend in your life? 

Really make those strong choices to get that out of your life. It's not always easy but if you want to live your purpose and have a good life it is necessary. Everyone should have peace! If you don't, really work on changes in your life to change that! From now on don't allow it period! Energetically starve and dramatic situations!

This next step can be hard for some but it's very important. If you have lots of drama in your life look deep at yourself and ask what you are getting out of it. For some they love the drama and attention so they keep allowing it in their lives. Some are afraid to move forward and do what they need to do so they attract drama to keep them distracted and have an excuse to not move forward. Really look deep because if this is a pattern you are getting something out of it. This can be hard for some to admit but doing so will cause a big breakthrough so be willing to do so. 

No matter what the root is, drama is never healthy and always blocks you from your purpose and moving forward. So really be honest with yourself and ask yourself "What am I getting out of drama?" Really look into and work through that so you can remove that obstacle from your life. 

Whatever the reason you are attracting this drama in your life focusing on yourself and your purpose can help push you forward through that roadblock. If you don't know your purpose I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: 

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But overall focus on moving forward in your life and creating the life you want. Don't let drama distract you and take you off of your path. Know that you can create a drama free life but you have to be in control of it and not engage with or allow it in your life. Be strong and don't let drama keep you off of your path! 

How To Navigate This World As An Internal Person

If you are internal here is some help on how to not only cope with that but to use it to your advantage.

First of all, if you are more internal than external, know that nothing is wrong with you! Some of us are created internal and some are created external. Neither is better or worse it just is. So many internal people think something is wrong with them but that is not the case at all! 

Being internal just means that you learn from your experiences from the inside out. You always need alone time to process anything that happened. You need to be alone with your thoughts in order to really process and evaluate things. Too much interaction can frazzle you and not allow you to take in or process anything in your life which can feel very overwhelming. 

Those that are external, process and evaluate things by being around others and talking with them. They need to have interaction in order to process. They are able to learn about themselves better by seeing it through someone's else's perspective and talking it out. Whereas an internal person needs to see it through their own inner perspective. Talking it over with others too much only jumbles things up for them and confuses them. 

If you know that you are internal, know that it is your responsibility to always create enough alone time for yourself so you can process. If you don't have enough alone you will start to feel very overwhelmed and can start to shut down. It can be a very unhealthy cycle. And the same thing if you are external and have too much alone time you will shut down as well. 

Too much interaction with people without alone time to take it in and process it causes an overload for internal people. It's like pouring too much into a cup and it overflows. You need to pour only a little in at a time and drink it and fully process it before you can add more or you will just make a mess and not actually process anything. 

There is a scale of internal and external and everyone is in a different place on that scale. It's not just black and white. Some are extremely internal and need a lot more alone time, some are in the middle and some are very external and need a lot of time with others. Knowing where you are on the scale is very important so you can be sure to set up your life to what's best for you. 

A lot of people may feel they are internal but they are really external and vice versa. They just don't realize exactly how internal or external some people actually are in order to evaluate properly where they are on the scale. When someone thinks they are one and really are the other it can cause them a lot of issues in life so knowing either way is very important. 

If you don't know if you are internal or external I can find out for you in a Manifesting Blueprint Reading. The info on that is here: 

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Once you do know where you are on the scale it's always your responsibility to give yourself the amount of interaction you need. We all need a little of both to be able to move forward and manifest what we want in life but some need so much more than others. So really give yourself exactly what you need. 

As with anything in life we are all different so you can never go by what works for someone else. You are a unique soul and need a different formula than what others do and that's a beautiful thing! 

Once you know your internal/external formula and incorporate it into your life you will feel energized and not so overwhelmed. 

So if you are internal always allow yourself a good amount of alone time. You need that as much as you need food and water. It is very important and remember you are perfect just as you are. Do not feel like something is wrong with you! Give yourself the amount of alone time you need so you can be healthy and not always feel so overwhelmed! 

If you don't give yourself the right amount if alone time or interaction time needed, you will always feel overloaded and overwhelmed and I don't want that for you! 

Never let that cup get too overfilled! Give yourself the gift of knowing how much alone time you need and apply it to your life and you will have a much happier life. 

How Decluttering Can Help Your Love Life And Finances

Are you holding on to old things you don't need anymore? Are you holding onto feelings from the past? Here's why letting go is so vital in order to get who or what you want. 

Decluttering is not just for physical items. We all have a certain amount of energetic space in our lives. When that is filled up that's it there's no room for anything else and it will keep you stuck where you are indefinitely. 

When we hold onto things, physical or emotional, that are no longer needed or relevant it prevents us from moving forward. When our space is filled with things we don't need or want it blocks something or someone we do need or want from coming in.

Having a lot of clutter can actually act as a shield when trying to find love. It puts off the energy of "I don't have room for love" and will actually block it. It's also telling the world that you haven't fully dealt with your past and there is emotional baggage you need to deal with which also repels love. 

Having a lot of clutter goes hand and hand with emotional clutter. If you have a lot of clutter it's a sign that there are things from your past you haven't fully dealt with and it's important to do so so you can move forward. After emotions are built up and undealt with on the inside, then it will start to show physically in your outer world including in the form of clutter. 

So do you have a lot of physical clutter? If so it's not only important to deal with that but also deal with the emotions that lead you there. Look back on things that you never fully dealt with. Let yourself feel those emotions deeply and fully. Really let them out and release them, holding them in is so toxic. Make room for some new wonderful emotions and let the old go. 

If you want to find a true love it's important to settle your emotional and physical home first. When you look at your home what does it say? Does it say "I'm full and I'm there's no room for anything else?" If so, really take care of it. You want your home to say "I'm ready and open for great things and people to come in"

Clutter can also block you from manifesting money and can affect every area of your life. Taking care of it can make a big difference very fast not only physically but emotionally as well.

Start by looking at things you no longer need or use. Ask yourself why you are still holding onto them in the first place. Are you holding onto them to hold onto the past in some way? Really holding onto the past will always stop you from moving forward and stop you from creating a happy life right now. The past is over but you can create even better for yourself right now! Let go not only physically but emotionally.

Some hold onto stuff they no longer need because of fear of not having enough in the future and it's an attempt to soothe that fear. The problem is doing so will block you from having enough. Because holding on is telling the universe that you won't have enough in the future so you need to hold onto it. Since we create our lives the universe will say "as you wish" and then you will make it so you not have enough in the future. 

So really look deep and start purging both physically and mentally. Let go of what you don't need any more so you can attract someone or something you want now. Leave room for someone or something wonderful to show up in your life! Make room physically and emotionally and see what happens. You will be so happy you did! 

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8 Ways To Live In The Moment And Make The Most Of Each Day

Being present in the moment is so important but not many people actually do. When we focus too much on the past it causes depression and when we focus too much on the future it causes anxiety. 

It's so important to really focus on the present moment. Here are 10 ways to start doing that:

1. Conversation focus

When in a conversation really focus intently on the other person. Don't wander off in your head about what you are gonna say next etc. Really focus on them and on hearing, them seeing them, and feeling them. Stay fully present in the conversation. 

Interact with the depth and quality you would if you knew it was your last day or the person you are interacting with’s last day. Look into the eyes of someone you are talking to and let the phone go for a minute and everything else. 

Be completely present and aware of every detail. Are they smiling? Are they hearing you? Really connect like it's the last time. If it is the last time, what would you miss about them? Appreciate whatever that is and savor it right now in this present moment while it is still here.

In that perspective of it being the last time what doesn't matter falls away and you can really get to the core. Always think about every moment possibly being your last.

2. What would you do differently if this was your last day? 

We tend to get so used to and take for granted so much. In an instant it all could be taken away. 

Take each breath like it could be your last. Make it a deep breath and savor and relish in it. Feel it expanding your lungs and how it's sustaining you and keeping you alive. Feel how it is feeding and nurturing your body with the oxygen it needs.

Really think about what you would do differently if you knew this was your last day.

Would you hold onto that hug with your loved one a little longer? 

Would you say something you have been holding back? 

Would that stupid argument matter?

Really focus on letting go of what doesn't matter and focus more on what does matter and do it very purposely. 

3. Really be present when eating

So many of us are in a rush and eat fast which can cause a lot of issues. Take time to savor each bite of food. Eat slowly and really taste it. Appreciate it like you were starving for a while and finally got food. Cherish it like it was your last bite of food ever. 

The same with drinking. Really savor that sip of water like you were in the desert and were so thirsty. Enjoy it and appreciate it! really be present!

4. Pet love

If you have a pet focus on being even more present with them. Pet your pet and really feel that soft fur cherish it. Be extra present like it was the last time. Let the rest of the world fade away for that moment and zone in on the connection you have. 

Try to feel what they are feeling and sense what they need. Work on connecting on an even deeper level. Don't let yourself get distracted, really be present with them. 

5. Beauty focus

We are all surrounded by so much beauty but tend to overlook it and not really appreciate like we should. Look at the beautiful colors all around you. Look at your loved ones face. If your sight went away would you remember every detail stored in your mind to love forever?

Look at all the beauty there is in nature. Enjoy that tree or flower on a deeper level and really appreciate it. 

6. Zone in

Zone in on things purposely. Zone in on your heartbeat or your partner's heartbeat. Zone in on your breathing. Zone in on every feeling. 

Sometimes just really zoning in on a pain you have and listening to it will help it go away.  So instead of trying to avoid the pain,, zone in on it and really listen to it. Pain is always a sign to get your attention and to let you know you need to make some changes so really listen to it. 

7. Listen 

Really take the time to listen deeply. Listen to your loved ones talk, or music, or even silence. Whatever you hear connect deeper with it. 

8. Smell 

Really use your sense of smell and connect deeper with it. Be present and really take in what you smell around you on a deeper level. What dies that smell evoke in you? Does it bring back a memory? 

At first when you are trying to be more present your mind will wander but as you catch yourself and bring yourself back into the present moment it will start to happen more naturally. 

You will find a sense of peace and mental clarity from being in each moment as it's happening. So many people miss very important moments because they aren't focusing on the present moment. 

The past already happened and focusing on it only hinders moving forward. And the future moments you will give your full focus then. Don't let anything slip by! We only ever have the now, so make the most of it and enjoy it!  

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Being Afraid To Be Alone Can Hurt Your Life Including Your Love Life. Here's How To Fix It.

Are you afraid to be alone with yourself? Here's why and how to fix and move past that so you can have a happier life. 

Is it extra hard for you when you are alone? Do you crawl out of your skin and try to fill your space with someone else as soon as possible just to cope? Doing this is a sign that something is wrong. This happens when you are not fully dealing with something from your past or your insecurities. 

That fear is because if you are alone you can't be distracted from your thoughts and are forced to face what you need to face. Some alone time is important for everyone.  Some need a lot of alone time and some need less but either way it's important to be able to sit with yourself alone and feel that peace. Some people actually can't manifest anything if they don't have enough alone time to process. So being okay with being alone is a very important thing to work on. 

By not facing what you need to face, it will only get worse and start to give you more and more anxiety and then eventually cause physical issues. Know that you can face anything! Not facing it actually is much harder in the long run. 

Once you can get rid of what's holding you back from being okay alone, it will help other areas of your life as well. Facing that fear may seem scary but in doing so you can eliminate that constant fear and can move forward in your life. 

The first step is to discover what it is that you are afraid of facing. Take some time alone with no distractions and really pay attention. What comes up for you? What are you afraid will come up? What are you running from? What feelings come up? Do you feel uncomfortable? Do you feel like jumping out of your skin? Sink more into those feelings and let yourself feel them fully so you can go deeper and work through it. 

When that jumpy feeling comes, explore it, feel it, really go deep with it. You can't let go of something you don't fully acknowledge first. Sometimes even just feeling the full magnitude of it can help. 

Avoiding it just makes it into a bigger issue than it is and makes it feel unbearable. Once you allow yourself to feel whatever it is you are afraid to face then it doesn't have that power over you anymore.

I promise that in the long run facing it is much less painful than continuing to suppress and run from it. No one wants to run in fear for the rest of their lives. And it is guaranteed to get worse over time and cause anxiety and issues in all areas of your life. 

The longer you sit with it and feel it, the better and better it will feel. Notice any thoughts and feelings that come up and let them be okay. Feel all of it deeply and fully, acknowledge it, then let it go. 

Depending on how much you have been ignoring this process could take time and will unfold in layers. Just be patient with yourself and let each issue unfold as it does. 

Being able to be alone with yourself can also help you to attract love. If you want to be alone with yourself others will as well. If you are afraid to be alone with yourself, that energy is out there and will actually repel love from you. 

Forgiveness is a big part of this as well. Forgive yourself and forgive others. In our many lives we have all made the worst mistakes one can make. Mistakes are how our soul learns. 

Don't hold onto guilt. Take what you learned and move forward. In the whole scheme of things learning from it is all that matters. Don't let one choice define you or hold you back from moving forward. 

Ask yourself these questions: What or who are you allowing in your life that isn't good for you? What are you settling with or just putting up with? What are you afraid of? Facing these things and making changes will make a huge difference in your life. 

If you'd like some help with this I recommend a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. Knowing and living your purpose and getting any blocks cleared can really help you to know yourself fully and step into your own skin. The info on that is here: 

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So if you are afraid to be alone that is blocking you from moving forward and always will until you face it. So work on these things and take back your power! Love being alone with yourself and create a much better life! Love you and others will as well!