How To Attract Real Love Not The Wrong People Over And Over

Are you sick of attracting the wrong people over and over? Do you have the same issues as your last relationship in your next one? Well here's how to stop that pattern.

The first step is to really look closely at all your past relationships. Especially those patterns that keep repeating from relationship to relationship. See we must be living enough of our true self and in a certain mindset to attract a real love. Until then, every relationship you attract is just to learn a lesson from to prepare you to be ready for that real love. 

The problem is a lot of people stay stuck in those patterns and never learn enough to be ready for the real love. It can be so frustrating and I don't want that for you. I don't want you to waste any more time with the wrong people. 

We still learn lessons when we are in our real love relationship. We are always learning, but we must be at a certain point in the learning process to be ready enough to even attract a real love.

So first look at any repeating patterns in your relationships. For instance are you only attracting those that aren't fully available and neglect you in some way? Well it all stems from you and how you are treating yourself. So if that's the case look at how you are treating yourself and neglecting yourself and fix that so you can get out of that pattern. A real love wouldn't neglect you so if there is the energy of neglect in your life you will only be able to attract that and not a real love. 

Whatever the pattern is you always have to look at yourself. Your choices are what attracts people to you. If you change your choices you can change who you attract. If you don't make changes you will definitely end up in the same pattern over and over until you do. If you keep doing the same thing you will keep attracting the same thing.

Sometimes we need to go through something a few times to fully learn which is fine but if you'd like to save yourself some time and aggravation really dissect everything and get to the root so you can fix it now. I don't know about you but I don't like wasting time. I'd rather get it fixed now so I can move forward. 

Whatever the issue is or issues are for you,  look at how you are doing that to yourself in some way. Really work on putting yourself first and taking care of yourself so you can attract a love that will treat you that way as well. 

Look at the common factor with your past love partners. Look at the similar traits. Were you just settling for someone you weren't happy with? Settling is another love blocker so removing that energy from your life is important as well! 

There can be so many different blocks and patterns but really look closely at your patterns so you can learn and can fix them so you can attract that real love instead of just another lesson to learn relationship. 

Because I've watched so many of my clients blocking themselves from love and going from one lesson relationship to another, I created a video course to help that once and for all. In my Attracting Love Boot Camp Video Course I go over all the major blocks and lessons that block people from attracting real love and how to fix them. I also go over all the things you can do that attract love so you can finally get a real love this time. There are also energetically infused clearing meditations included to make it easier to see and break down those blocks. You can get immediate access to that here:

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3 Things You Might Be Doing That Are Attracting The Wrong Love Partner

So many want to find love but are sabotaging themselves without even realizing it and keep attracting the wrong people for them. Our choices/actions put out what we attract back. So mentally you may really want to find love but if at the same time you are doing actions that attract the opposite, you are only sabotaging yourself when it comes to finding love.

Here are 3 things you may be doing that will attract the wrong partner for you.

1. You aren't really ready

You may think you are ready and really want love but deep down you aren't ready. Perhaps deep down you are scared of being hurt and have fear and walls up. Those walls may protect you from hurt but they also block out love. 

Really fully process and let go of anything that's holding you back from the past. Free yourself and create a clean slate so you can attract someone that's right for you. You can't punish a new partner for what an old partner did without attracting that same situation again. So keep that in mind and let it go. That is only keeping you in that situation over and over again with new people. 

If you have those walls up you will only attract the same kind of issue that hurt you in the first place. So those walls will cause you to attract another person that treats you the same way as the past person that hurt you and it becomes a vicious cycle. 

Those walls can also attract a partner that also has walls up too and who could never fully love you. So work on those walls so you are ready to attract a real love this time and not more hurt! 

2. You haven't let go of a past love 

If you haven't fully let go from a past love you are not allowing love to even come to you because your energetic signal you put out into the world will say that you are already taken. When this happens you can never be fully open to a new love so instead you will usually attract someone that isn't fully available in some way and can't be what you need. 

So really work on letting go of any past loves. That only holds you in the past, you want to focus on your now and your future. Let go so you can let in someone better for you. That past love didn't work for a reason, don't let it hold you back any longer. You must let go to find the right person for you. Free yourself to move forward to happiness! 

3. You aren't treating yourself right

If you aren't treating yourself right you can only attract someone that treats you wrong as well. How you treat yourself will be reflected in who you attract. So look closely how you are treating yourself. Are you neglecting yourself or your health? Are you talking down to or about yourself? Are you putting yourself on hold for others? Are you letting yourself down?

Really look closely because how you treat yourself will decide who you attract. Your true love wouldn't hurt you so you can't attract them if you are hurting yourself in some way. When you are in that vibration it wouldn't match to love it would only attract more hurt. So treat yourself like gold so this time you can attract a real love! 

Look at the choices you are making and work towards changing them to match up with attracting love instead of more hurt. If you make the same choices you will always attract the same situations over and over just with a new person. So make some changes and finally be ready to attract something real! 

If you would like help figuring out what's blocking you and to help manifest love, I recommend a Manifesting Love Reading And Clearing Bundle. That info is here:

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How To Survive And Make The Most Of Mercury In Retrograde

Mercury in retrograde gets a bad rep but it's actually very helpful. Here's how to make the most of it, make it easier, and come out of it ahead! 

When mercury is in retrograde, its job is basically to find everything that's wrong and bring it to light so you can fix it. It finds anything that needs to be fixed or was ignored etc. This is so when mercury in retrograde is over you can sail forward faster. It prepares you for the next chapter. It is a clean sweep to help push you forward.

For those that ignore things and procrastinate this time can be really rough. The key is the less you leave undone or untaken care of, the smoother this time will go for you. 

Any area you are slacking in will be brought to light so you can take care of it. It basically goes through and finds anything you missed, ignored, or neglected and forces you to fix it. So when something goes "wrong" or breaks etc. look at what it's telling you and what you need to take care of. The sooner you take care of it, the less problems you will have. 

Issues will be certain to pop up if there's anything you are neglecting. Issues can show up in any area of your life. It can show up in your relationships, health, at work, your finances etc. Any stuffed down emotions or anything you have ignored will come up and usually at the worst possible time. No area of your life is off limits for this clean sweep. 

Be sure to take care of yourself health wise and get enough sleep. Have extras of things so if something spills or runs out early etc.  you are prepared. Really stay on top of any maintenance or upkeep. If you leave an opening for something to go wrong, it will so don't take any chances or leave any openings! Have all your ducks in a row!

The more on top of things you are, the easier mercury in retrograde will be. Make a point to stay on top of things year round so mercury in retrograde doesn't have to be a hard process.

And when something does happen just be thankful you know so you can fix it and move forward. That issue was keeping you from moving forward so it really is a good thing to know and address it. Think of it as it is showing you everything blocking you from moving forward so you can fix it. 

Be thankful it showed you these things needed taking care of because you can't move to the next, better level until they are fixed. So mercury retrograde is like that friend that tells you how it really is so you can make the changes needed. Appreciate that.

If you are always mindful to take care of things right away then mercury in retrograde won't affect you. So overall the key is to stay on top of things year round and not only life but mercury in retrograde will go much smoother for you! 

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Why Sacrifice Takes You Off Of Your Path

Are you sacrificing yourself? Your needs? Your wants? Your dreams? Here's why that takes you off of your path of why you are here.

We are all here to experience and express ourselves. On the other side we are all one so it can be hard to see where one ends and another begins. So we come to earth in physical form so we can experience being separate and can learn and express ourselves as an individual. We take that back with us when we go home to the other side again. 

Being separated in bodies, we can compare ourselves to others and can really learn,  experience, and express who we are. We learn how we are different from everyone else. It's so important for us to value ourselves and to authentically express ourselves or we can't fully do what we came here for.

So many see sacrifice as this noble thing but it really isn't. There's a difference between giving/helping and sacrificing. When you give from a place of sacrifice you deplete yourself. And on a bigger scale since we are all one depleting yourself depletes others as well. When you sacrifice yourself you aren't able to fully express yourself which is why you are here. 

When you put yourself first you have much more to give and can do so without hurting or sacrificing yourself at all. So being your full un-depleted self you can actually give way more. When you sacrifice you are limited and eventually burn out and then aren't good for anyone. 

Also, when parents are constantly sacrificing themselves, then kids inevitably start doing that as they grow up as well and they can't fully express themselves either. It becomes a vicious cycle. Showing that you value yourself and can accomplish what you need to without sacrificing or putting yourself last is the best gift you can pass down.

Sacrifice only leads to lack and depletion and attracts more circumstances where you need to sacrifice. It's a dead end road and only adds more problems to your life.  

It's like the oxygen mask on a plane. If you sacrifice yourself to put the mask on your child first, you may not make it long enough to put the mask on them and then you both die. 

But if you take care of and value yourself and put that mask on you first you can save both of you and probably others along the way as well. Really value yourself and put yourself first! This will pass down generations and help so many along the way.

Sacrificing and being a martyr is not noble. Taking care of yourself first is how you can really make a bigger difference in the world. And of course express yourself and what you want which is what you are here for. 

Sacrifice in your life can also affect your finances and every other area of your life. That sacrifice energy permeates through your whole life and can cause a lot of negative patterns for you. It's never worth it.

So look at your life, what are you sacrificing? Start making changes and start valuing yourself more and let go of all that sacrifice! Doing so will not only help you but will help those you are sacrificing for. Really focus on nurturing you and expressing yourself at soul level. 

Really use your purpose gift in all you do that will attract more and more to you which then you can use to help others. That is who you are at soul level so the more you use it the more you are doing what you are here for. If you don't know your purpose gift I can find that out for you and more in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. You can get that here: 

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Let go of that sacrifice and let in so much more! Get off that dead end path and get on your true path! 

Tips To Get On Your Highest Path And Live Your Best Life!

We all have free will which is great but our free choices can also take us off of the path we hoped for before we came to earth. Our spirit guides are always giving us signs and nudges towards our highest path for this life but it is up to us to listen. 

For instance maybe you try to do something that's not right for you and first you will get a tiny nudge to tell you that's not right. If you don't listen to the nudge and keep trying, it turns into a rock then a boulder then a brick wall. That is your spirit guide trying to tell you that's not right for you.

Everything that happens to us is because of our choices whether in this life or a past life. Nothing ever just happens to us. Once we realize that, we can start to see that we truly have control and can choose to make our lives exactly what we want.

There are many different paths we can choose to take in our lives but if we listen and pay attention then we can take our highest path. We are all meant to be abundant and happy but it's up to us to take the action towards it. It may not be easy but there is always at least one choice we can make and action we can take to get on a better path.

Here are some tips to help you to get on your highest path: 

 -Listen to your inner self and center yourself as much as possible. Our inner self is always helping us out, we just need to make a point to listen!  Consistent meditation is very helpful with that.

 -Take the time to pay attention to those signs, don't ignore them! There is always a deeper meaning in everything so take the time to look deeper. Looking at just the surface level won't get you far. Really open up and look deeper! 

 -The intention behind everything you do is very important. Really look deep at the intent behind what you are doing. Are you doing it to get back at someone? Are you doing it to stroke your ego? Really take the time to think about the deeper reason why you are doing something. 

 -Pay attention to the lessons that show up in your life. There is always at least one lesson showing up for you to learn and grow from at any point in your life. If you can see it and learn it the first time, it will prevent it from showing up in your life over and over. When it has to repeat over and over it usually comes in the form of a harder struggle each time to get you to notice. So noticing sooner can save you a lot of trouble! 

 -Set intentions for what you want in your life. If you don't set intentions often it's like you're going through life aimlessly waiting for something to happen. Our spirit guides want to help us create the life we want but if we aren't clear with our intentions they can't help us with it. 

Also, the more intentions you set and prayers you send out, the stronger our prayer and intention signal becomes which makes it easier and easier for them to come to fruition and are taken more seriously. If we don't make clear what we want, it can't happen.

 -Focus on what you do want, not what you don't want. If you focus on what you don't want you are giving it energy and more of that will show up in your life. 

Our actions create and show the universe what we want. If we focus on things we don't want we are going to what we don't want happen over and over. Really pay attention to what you focus on. 

Don't give what or who you don't want any energy. When something happens that you do want, celebrate it and maybe do a little dance or something and show the universe that you want more of that! Take time out to say thank you for what you do want! Make it clear that you want more of it in your life!

-It's a good practice to write down at least 5 things you are grateful for a day. That shows the universe you are grateful for what you have and opens it up for more to come into your life. 

For those of you that think you don't have anything to be grateful for there is ALWAYS something a roof over your head, hot water, water, food, legs, arms, vision, hearing etc. The more you focus on being grateful for what you do have the better. 

-In order to get what you want you have to take action towards it. Nothing will just happen, you must take physical action towards it. Remember you have free will and your actions create everything in your life. 

It can be scary sometimes to take new action but it's always worth it. So many people think over and over about something they want but never take the steps to actually get it. Don't let fear stop you from creating the life you want! It's NEVER too late!

 -Enjoy yourself! We are here to experience ourselves in the physical form, make it an enjoyable experience! So many people worry too much and take things too seriously. One of the most common things I hear from spirits is that they wish they didn't worry as much and that they enjoyed themselves more.

 -Stay in the present moment. So many people let things pass by without fully experiencing it. Be present in each moment. We only ever have the now so experience it fully! 

-Don't stay anywhere longer than is good for you out of guilt or for any reason. This includes relationships, jobs etc. It's important for your soul to learn and move on and to not get stuck in a pattern that is not good for you. There is always a better choice. It may not always be easy but it's worth it.

 -Don't ever bother with revenge or punishing someone for perceived wrong doing. Karma will take care of it and if we seek revenge we only add to our karma.

-Love yourself and know that you deserve the best! Let go of any guilt or insecurities. Don't let the past hold you back. Release yourself from that chain so you can move forward.

-Always be yourself. Changing who you are for someone else will never allow you to move forward.

-Always focus on using more of your purpose gift in your life. That is the key to creating the life you want! The more you use it and align with it the better! You are here to express yourself and that is who you are on the deepest soul level! 

Use these tips to choose your highest path available to you and experience your life the way you want to, that's why you are here!

If you feel stuck and feel like there are blocks in your way I recommend a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing to get to the bottom of it. In order for us to pick our highest path we must choose things that go with our purpose gift and who we are at soul level. 

Those that are misaligned may be far away from who they are at soul level which will cause many issues in their life. In a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing you will find out who you are at soul level, your purpose gift, clear any blocks and restrictions in your way plus so much more. The full description is here: 

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3 Ways To Heighten Your Intuition

We all have the ability to connect deeper with our intuition but unfortunately many don't. It's such a powerful gift and should be used and nurtured! It's like a muscle, the more you work on it the more it grows. Once you really start to trust and listen to it, it will grow and grow.

Our higher self and our spirit guides are always sending us messages and clues but we must make a point to pay attention. Start really paying attention and looking deeper and you will be amazed with what you can do.

Here are 3 ways to connect with and grow your intuition:

1. Listen to it

This may sound obvious but so many know something in their gut and they ignore it! Trust that you have so many answers within you and start really listening! 

How many times have you got a feeling about something and ignored it only to kick yourself later for not listening? 

I know you may think to yourself. “How do I know if that's just my mind playing tricks on me?” The key is the more you use and listen to your intuition, the clearer it will get. 

Think about those times when you wished you had listened, how did it feel when it came to you? Really pay attention to the feelings and sensations you get when you get a feeling or inspiration. You can use those later to identify an intuitive inspiration. 

Writing it down can also be helpful. But really pay attention closely to everything that goes on inside you. There is always a pattern and there are always clues. Start really noticing them and putting those clues together. It's like puzzle pieces they may not seem like much separate but once you put them together it makes sense! 

When you hear that voice inside you, listen to it and pay attention to how it feels. You have so much more power and answers inside you than you realize. Start opening up to it and see the difference it makes in your life.

2. Meditation

Frequent meditation is very helpful to open up your intuition. Meditation helps to get rid of unnecessary and racing thoughts and helps the messages come in clearer plus so many other benefits. It takes time but being consistent with it makes a huge difference. 

Even just a little each day helps. Even just some quiet time to yourself to reflect can help. If you keep going and never stop to actually listen, it can be very hard to connect to your intuition. You need time and space to stop and hear the messages that are always coming through. If you never stop to listen how can you hear them? 

3. Align better to your purpose gift and who you are at soul level

The more you use your purpose gift, the more you become your true self which brings you closer to your intuition. There is always more of your purpose gift you can add in your life and a deeper level of it. Align to who you are at soul level so you can connect better. 

The farther away you are from your purpose and who you are at soul level, the harder it is to connect to your intuition. Not being your true self causes blocks in the way and just makes it harder. So putting more focus into aligning and using your purpose gift on a deeper level will make your intuition so much stronger. 

So get in touch with you so you can get in touch with your intuition and use it to your benefit. It's a gift we all have access to why not take advantage? 

If you don't know your purpose gift or who you are at soul level yet I can find that out for you and more in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

I want to see you grow and prosper and stay on the right path for you and listening to and using your intuition makes all the difference!  

Everyone has the opportunity to go on their highest path possible in this lifetime but you must choose to take it and use all the tools available to you. Your intuition is one of your most valuable tools so don't ignore it!

You have so much inside of you that you can unlock to help you! Are you ready to turn that key and start listening?

The 3 Most Common Ways People Block Themselves From Finding Real Love

There are three common blocks that come through over and over for people looking for love so I wanted to write about them so you can avoid them. If you are looking for love be sure to look deep and make sure you aren't getting in your own way of real love! Here are the three most common blocks to real love:

1. Holding onto the past 

When you are still holding onto the past or a past love that stops you from moving forward. Any ties to the past literally keep you tied there. Those ties can never allow you to move forward in any way, they will always pull you back. Those ties physically, mentally and emotionally hold you back and block not only love but other things you want to move forward. 

Really look deep and tie up any loose ends and close any open doors. All doors must be closed and locked tight in order to open any new ones. 

There are many ways to be stuck in the past. It could be still holding out hope an old love will come back, or literally still seeing your ex and not fully letting go. It could be reliving something you wish you did differently in the past or reliving your "glory days." You can create even better times ahead but not if you are still stuck in the past and think those were your best times. 

There are so many ways to be blocked by not letting go of the past so be really mindful and be sure you aren't holding onto the past in anyway. Let go so you can move forward to better, to real love! 

2. Mistreating themselves

This is a big one. If you are mistreating yourself or putting yourself last you can only attract others that will mistreat you and put you last as well. Real love would not mistreat you so this leads to never being able to attract real love. Martyrs cannot attract real love so remember that. Don't put yourself down or last. 

Remember the oxygen mask must go on you first! You must treat yourself right and respect yourself in order to attract real love. Look at how you see yourself and treat yourself. Start treating yourself like you want your love to treat you. 

Cherish and truly love yourself. Happiness and confidence are big love attraction magnets. Love yourself so you can find someone that truly loves you as well. 

3. Staying with someone they shouldn’t for way too long

This is another one. People tend to try to make a relationship work and hope it will change far after they should have left. The longer you stay and accept things you shouldn't, the more of that you will attract into your life so it becomes a vicious cycle. 

If a relationship is not working for you after trying to work on it then let it go. The longer you stay, the worse it gets and the longer until you can find your real love.

Staying where you aren't happy only tells the universe that you want that so more things you aren't happy about will show up in your life in all areas. Our choices create our lives so only choose what you do want and show the universe what you really want instead of what you don't want. 

What we allow or accept is basically ordering more of it onto our lives. So don't accept or allow anything you don't want. Create what you do want instead of more of what you don't want. Look carefully what are you accepting or putting up with that you shouldn't be? 

Work on these things so you can attract a real love. Don't get in the way of love, get ready for love! 

If you'd like help finding and clearing what's blocking you from love and more I can help you in a Finding Love Reading And Clearing. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/finding-love-reading-and-clearing

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4 Things You Must Do When Trying To Manifest Something

1. Be sure you really want it

This may seem obvious but you would be surprised. So many think they want it because society or their family says they should but deep down they don't really want it. So be sure that deep down you really want what you are trying to manifest and you aren't just lying to yourself.

It's just a waste of time and energy trying to manifest something you don't really want when you could be manifesting something you do want! 

2. Be ready and prepared for it

Whatever your goal, it's important that you are prepared and can handle it or you won't be able to manifest it. So for example if you are trying to manifest a lot of money but you can't even handle your finances properly now then you are blocking yourself from manifesting more. So be sure to take care of what you have now so you can prove that you are ready to receive more.

Another example is love. If you want to manifest love do you have time and energy to give to a partner? You must always make the time first to prove you are ready. Never say "oh I'll make changes once I manifest." The key is you must make the changes first in order to manifest! 

Another example is if you are trying to manifest a specific job are you free those hours to work. Can you get there? Are you prepared to move if needed? 

Really look at how your life would be different once you manifest what you want and make changes now to get ready and usher it in to you.

3. Start thinking and acting like you already manifested it

Really think about what you would do differently in your life if you already manifested your desired outcome. Start changing what you do to match that. That helps to change your vibration to match what you want. You can never do the same things and get something different. The actions you are taking now are getting you what you have now. So start taking the actions that match your desired outcome instead! 

So for instance if you are trying to manifest a job would you dress different for that job then you do now? Start dressing that way now to change your vibration to match the job. 

Or would you wear makeup or dress different once you found your love? Start doing those things now to help attract that. Start doing what you would do once you have reached your goal.

4. What you want must not go against your purpose gift or who you are at soul level

Trying to manifest something that is against your purpose and who you are at soul level is futile. So when working on manifesting or anything in life for that matter, always be sure it aligns with your purpose gift and who you are at soul level. 

That also goes back to really wanting what you are manifesting as well because if your soul doesn't want it then you can't manifest it. So just be sure you aren't getting in your own way by trying to manifest something that goes against who you are at soul level. 

If you don't already know your purpose gift and who you are at soul level I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

So overall be sure you really want whatever you are trying to manifest, be prepared for it, and start acting like you already manifested it! 

Manifesting is different for each person. Everyone has their own unique manifesting code which is basically a cheat sheet on how you personally manifest. What works for one person will actually block manifesting for another person so it's important to know and use your specific code when manifesting. 

If you don't know your code I can find out for you in a Manifesting Blueprint Reading. To get one go here: 

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How Using Your Purpose Gift Gives You Energy And Helps All Areas Of Your Life

We all can use more energy but so many don't know how to get it. The good news is it's all within our choices that we can get that influx of energy into our lives. Here is how. 

Vital force energy is the key to our health and energy. It is what we thrive on or get depleted from if we aren't getting any. We get vital force energy by our choices and by living true to who we are at soul level and our purpose gift.

The more aligned you are to your purpose gift, the more open you are to receive vital force energy. Picture it like a hose. If you are making choices that are keeping you misaligned from your purpose you kink the hose and less and less vital force energy can get through. The more aligned choices you make and the more you use your purpose gift, the more open that hose gets and more of that wonderful vital force energy comes through. 

That vital force energy is your spark, your passion, your happiness, your health, your vitality, your everything. Lack of vital force energy leads to illness, feeling drained, and lots of other issues. So when these things happen it's important to always put more focus into using your purpose gift more so you can allow more vital force energy in. 

We are here to express our true selves and when we are not using our purpose gift and not aligned to who we are at soul level we can't get enough vital force energy which causes lack in our life. The more we get the better. So use that gift and in kink that hose! That is what you are here for!

There is always more of your purpose gift you can add into your life. There is always a deeper level so always be open to looking into how you can add more and more to get an even better life. 

Our bodies need vital force energy but unfortunately we tend to make choices in our lives that block it from coming in without even realizing it. We all should and can be healthy with lots of energy but it's up to us to make those choices and to let that unlimited vital force energy in! 

Any choices you make that go against who you are at soul level and your purpose gift, will cancel out the right choices so always be mindful of that. Always look closely at all your choices and be sure they align to your purpose gift. 

If you don't know your purpose gift yet, I can find out for you and find and clear what's blocking you from it in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

For those that know their purpose gift, really take the time to up level and start using it more. Especially look at things you do everyday, those can make the most impact. Look into adding your purpose gift into everything from how you do the dishes and organize your house to how you care for your kids, in your relationships, and how you work. 

Every single part of your life can contain your purpose gift in some way. The more you use it, the better your life will get in all areas. You can never be fully abundant in any area of your life, including financially and in love, if you are not using your purpose gift. 

Your purpose gift is your secret key to life. I honestly don't know how people survive without knowing it. Before I knew mine it was like living life in the dark and everything feeling out of my control. But once I knew it and aligned to it I was then in the light and can now control and create my life exactly how I want through my choices.

Give yourself the gift of energy and anything else you want to create in your life! 

Your purpose gift is the key but you must use it! I challenge all of you to take that effort to use it more, it will be well worth it! You deserve energy and happiness! 

Here's How To Notice The Lessons, Signs, And Synchronicities As They Appear In Your Life

All of us have lessons, signs, and synchronicities happening in our lives all around us everyday. Unfortunately not everyone is tuned in to them and actually notices them. If you do notice them it can be a helpful road map through life. Here's how to look deeper and notice when they come up for you.

When lessons or little nuggets of help come through it will never be completely spelled out for you so it's important to be open and look a little deeper. Sometimes they will show up through a song or something a stranger says to you or just a thought or feeling. 

There is always another level of perception in your life that you can attain by being open and just listening deeper with all your senses. The first step is just being aware that so much more is going on behind the surface. Our spirit guides and our choices are always creating lessons and nuggets for us below the surface. 

So start by being aware and just noticing things on a deeper level. It helps to write things down to keep track so you can look back and see later. Hindsight is a great tool to see what something meant for you so you learn the language and can listen to it right away next time. 

Notice any feelings or thoughts you get. Notice things around you and any patterns. It can show up in any way at any time so be patient with yourself. 

Notice if you ignore your intuition what happens? Usually something hard will be thrown in your path to remind you that you didn't listen and need to do something different for your best interest. 

The thought may usually seem silly and you may think "Why would I do that?" But overtime you will see there is a very good reason and if you listen it will save you a lot of trouble in the long run.

We all have free will and our spirit guides cannot get in the way of that, but they can help us get to where we want to go with a less bumpier path if we choose to listen. 

Some people will notice number sequences like for instance "1111". The thing is the meaning is different for each person there is no one size fits all so it can be tricky. 

If you get number sequences a lot I can find out what your guides are trying to tell you in a  General Reading. In the questions section just put what number sequences you would like to find out about or anything for that matter. You can get a General Reading here: 

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You can also talk to your guides and create symbols and signs for them to send you. For instance if I see this come up it means this etc. But just be very specific and clear or you can end up causing confusion. 

We also chose certain lessons we wanted to learn this time on earth. Those are also always showing up behind the scenes all the time. If you don't know what they are it can be easy to miss and may take much longer to complete them.

I have a Life Lesson Reading available where I can find out all your specific life lessons, how they are showing up for you now, and how complete you are with them. You can get that reading here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/life-lesson-reading

And for those that already know their life lessons and want to check their progress since last time, I can find out for you in a Life Lesson Recheck Reading. You can get that here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/life-lesson-re-check-reading

It's impossible to list all the ways the signs come through there are so many and it differs for each person. It could be through a bird or a butterfly, or an obstacle telling you to look deeper and make changes. Any roadblock that comes up for you look deeper at, there is a reason. 

Everything has a perfect flow, a reason, and a deeper meaning. If you look deeper you can see it and everything in life will make so much more sense. Without listening to these signs and nudges it can feel like you are going through life blind. 

So really start paying attention and opening up to all the help you are being given all around you. As you pay attention, open up, and listen to your intuition more and more it gets easier and easier. It makes life much easier and less bumpy, but only if you actually listen and follow the signs. 

So today open up and look deeper at what is showing up for you to help you. It's there just listen! 

How Trust Issues Can Sabotage Your Relationship And How To Fix It

Unfortunately most of us can sabotage things in our lives without even realizing. Here is why trust issues sabotage your relationship and how to fix it. 

Trust issues are the number one problem that damages relationships. Whether you have them from a past relationship or they are a new thing for you, they are harmful to all relationships. 

Trust in a relationship is the most important thing. Without that, the relationship will eventually crumble. If you don't fully trust the person, you can't fully love them either. Trust and love go hand in hand. 

If you are having trust issues the first thing you need to do is look at the root. Did you have them before this relationship? Is this because of your lack of self esteem or confidence? Did your partner do some thing that made you lose that trust? Really look deep and find the root. You cannot fix it if you don't know the root.

It can be tricky because some people without realizing it may be blaming someone else for their trust issues when it's really because of their self esteem or something created from past relationships. So really be sure you know the root of the issues first and foremost. Be sure to be honest with yourself.

And on the other side of it if your partner doesn't trust you look deep at that as well. Did you do something to cause that lack of trust? Is it coming from their own insecurities? Knowing the truth is the first step to healing. 

The ironic thing is some relationships that both parties can be trusted can be completely ruined because of trust issues for no reason. So it's so important to really look deep and hone in on any trust issues and work on them.

So after you look deep and find the root, if the root stemmed from actions your partner took you need to make a decision. If they did something to make you lose trust you need to decide if you can fully forgive them or not. 

If you can't forgive them you need to let that relationship go. You can never have a truly healthy relationship if you are always holding that over them or always wondering about it in your mind. You either need to forgive them and completely let it go or end the relationship. 

If you want to forgive them and let it go,  really look at their actions since then. Are they really sorry? Have they made changes since? Have they tried their best to prove it to you? Don't just forgive them if you don't feel things have changed, that will only prolong your pain. 

You want a stable foundation to grow on, not one that could crumble at any time. Unfortunately many people stay in these situations way longer than they should and waste their time and end up more hurt in the long run. 

So really look deep at if you truly can forgive and be honest with yourself. Lying to yourself about it will only cause you more pain down the road. So remember you need to fully forgive and erase it from memory completely or end it. Those are the only 2 ways to have a healthy relationship. 

If you did something yourself to cause the trust issues look at the actions you have taken since. Have you proven your trust? Can you regain that trust back? What can you do to help heal things? 

Again, if you feel they will never trust you again no matter what, then it's time to move on and make those changes in your next relationship to stop that pattern. Really communicate with your partner and gauge whether that trust can ever be restored or not.

If you'd like some clarity about your relationship and to ask some questions about it to get some guidance I can help you in a Relationship Reading. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/relationship-reading

Now after looking deep, if you realize those trust issues are stemming from yourself and your own insecurities then it's so important to work on that. If you don't, you will only push your partner away and I don't want that for you! Too many good relationships end because of unfounded trust issues. 

Really get to the core and focus on what caused you to have these issues in the first place. Is it a past relationship? If so really try to clear the slate and let that go. Don't punish your partner for things someone else did, that's not fair. 

Is it stemming from your lack of self esteem and confidence? This is a very common issue. If this is the case, really put work into that and into yourself. We should all be confident in ourselves and when we aren't there are issues we need to work on. 

Don't compare yourself to others, look at yourself and all your great qualities and focus on those! Focus on creating a happy life for yourself and focus on your purpose,  that will help your confidence! 

If you need help with this I recommend a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. I can tell you your purpose gift and find and clear what is blocking you so you can move forward with confidence plus so much more. To get one go here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

So no matter what the root is, trust issues will always destroy a relationship, it's only a matter of time. So find the root and really work through them so you can move forward and be happy! You deserve to be happy and can be! 

Here's Why And How To Stop The Same Things Happening Over And Over In Your Life

Do you have the same patterns repeating over and over in your life and want them to stop? Here's why that happens and how to stop.

If you have the same patterns repeating, for instance a new relationship but getting treated the same way as the last one or a new job but the same issues etc. there is a way to stop that but It all starts with you! 

Nothing just happens to you, your choices are attracting this over and over. The problem is most people don't realize it's their choices or even what choices are causing it.

The first step is to be aware of the pattern or patterns repeating over and over in your life. Some people aren't even conscious enough to notice there are patterns to begin with. If that's you, really make a point to pay more attention to anything repeating in your life. There is a reason this is happening. 

There is always some lesson or change you need to make when this happens. If you don't, the pattern will continue forever even into your next life so it's important to fix it now to save yourself a lot of trouble! 

Really look deep and learn the lesson and make the changes needed so you can get out of that pattern. For instance, if you are being treated badly by different people over and over look at how you are treating yourself and others, that will reflect how you are treated. Usually this happens when the person neglects or treats themselves bad and puts themselves last and that's what keeps attracting the same thing. 

So to get out of that pattern start treating yourself better and not allowing anyone to treat you bad. Be strong and cut it off at the first sign of them not treating you right. 

Always look to the root of what's going on. Look at your choices and how this pattern started. Don't ever look for someone else to change, it's always you that needs to make the changes. Your choices are what attracted that situation in the first place so changing those choices will get you out of that pattern and stop you from attracting similar in the future.

So the key is with any pattern you don't like in your life, look close at your choices and why you are attracting that. Sometimes just a simple change can make a huge difference and get you out of that pattern forever! 

Really think about your life, what changes would be good for you to make? Is there anyone that you should remove from your life? Are you not treating yourself right? Are you allowing or accepting less than you should?

So really ask yourself these questions and look at any patterns you aren't happy with. Really reflect on what YOU can do differently. It all starts with you. That is a beautiful thing because that means you have the complete power to create the life you want! Use your power and leave those patterns in the past! 

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6 Vital Things You Need To Find Happiness

Here are six things that are essential to finding happiness. Take care of these things you can find that happiness you crave. You can and should have happiness.

1. Living your purpose

If you aren't actively living your purpose, you aren't fully expressing yourself and cannot truly find happiness so this is a vital step towards finding happiness. Your soul exists to express your purpose and is so important.

Using your purpose gift and expressing yourself with it is why you are here. Without using your purpose gift, you can't find happiness or abundance in any area of your life. This needs to always be at the top of your list when wanting happiness or anything in your life. 

Everyday ask yourself "How can I add more of my purpose gift into my life today?" There is always another deeper level you can go to and more of your gift you can add. The more you add the more aligned you become and the more you will be inspired with new things to do to align with your gift even more. 

Also, be sure to eliminate anything in your life that is the opposite of or goes against your purpose gift. Anything that goes against your purpose gift will only cancel out any actions that align to your purpose gift so you won't get anywhere. 

So really look closely at every little action you take and be sure it aligns. You can use your purpose gift in everything you do from how you cook or brush your teeth to what you do for work. Your purpose gift should be a full lifestyle and should be the most important thing. 

It is an ongoing process and the more you use it the happier you will be. If you don't know your purpose gift, I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading

2. Leave the past in the past

To find happiness you can't be living in the past. Happiness can only be found in the now not the past or future. Really make a point to let go of the past. 

Don't keep criticizing yourself for what you wish you did or others for what they should have done. It's over and can't be changed. Focus on what you can do now. Forgive yourself and others. Letting go of what is holding you to the past is very important to finding happiness. 

Create your best now instead, don't hold onto the past. Doing that literally ties you there and prevents you from ever moving forward and finding happiness now.

3. Do be a martyr 

It's so important to really live for you. If you put yourself last you can never find true happiness. You have to make yourself a priority to find happiness. 

When you are happy then everyone around you will be happier as well. But it is always your responsibility to make time for and make yourself a priority. Think about that and know that saying no to something you don't want is a big part of finding happiness and is okay! 

4. Make a plan and take action 

Be sure to schedule and plan out things you want. Don't just dream or talk about them, really start doing them. They will never happen or just fall into your lap, you have to plan and take action to create them. 

Sometimes even taking the first small step towards a goal can create so much peace and happiness in itself. Trust yourself, know you can do it and just start. No excuses! You are the only one blocking you from your dreams and have the power to make them happen! 

5. Celebrate

It's so important to celebrate and appreciate successes you have already achieved. Always take time to look at how far you have come. 

So many focus on what they still need or haven't achieved yet but allow yourself time to revel in what you have accomplished. The more you celebrate your successes, the more likely you are to have more in the future.

And when you talk down or criticize yourself you will only attract more things to be critical of. So really watch how you react to things and focus on what you have achieved and accomplished and only learn from what hasn't gone right. 

Sometimes learning the lesson from a failure is the biggest accomplishment and the biggest goal achieved. So don't be so hard on yourself and focus on all the positives. What you focus on grows so always be mindful of that when creating the life you want.  

6. Don't look outside yourself

Happiness can only be found inside yourself. No one else can make you happy but you. You have to find that inner love for yourself first. Once you do that all your relationships will be so much better and happier. 

If you aren't happy with you no one else will be either. So really focus on and work on you. Work through anything that is holding you back. You are the only thing in your way to finding happiness. 

Don't focus on what others are doing, focus on your choices and what you are allowing them to do. Always know you are in control of who is in your life and create better boundaries if needed.

That happiness is already within you, you just need to connect with it. You should be happy so if you aren't really take stock of your life and make any necessary changes. If you aren't happy that is always a sign that you need to make changes in your life. 

Don't just settle into the unhappiness and think it has to be that way. Know that you fully deserve and can achieve that true happiness. You have full control so use it and grab your happiness! 

How To Know If You Are On The Right Path

Life can be a struggle and from one day to the next you may question if you are on the right path or not. Here are some ways to find out if you are.

The first thing is most people already know when they are or aren't in the right path. It's that deep inner knowing. You may ignore it or try to hide from it but inside you know. So if you are questioning whether you are or not you are on the right path you probably aren't. 

When you are on the right path there is this inner knowing and a feeling of always being in the right place at the right time. Serendipitous and perfect synchronicities just always happen to show you you are on the right path. There is also always this inner excitement and drive to keep going further down that path. 

There are many ways we can choose to be on the right path. There is not one singular path, there are many we can choose from. We are here to express ourselves how we choose by using our purpose gift. We have free will to choose which path is right for us. 

The key is no matter what you do that you use your purpose gift. You can use that purpose gift in the way you choose, but as long as you are using it you are on the right path. 

The more you use your purpose gift the happier and better your life gets. It is more like levels, you can still be on your path but may not be too far on it. The farther you go the better. It happens in stages. As you add more of your purpose gift into your life, then opportunities to add even more come up and if you choose to accept them then you will get farther down your path. 

So even if you may not be completely happy yet that doesn't mean you aren't on your path. The path gets more beautiful as you go. You find more peace, knowing, and certainty that everything is right as you go. Having that is such an amazing gift and I want everyone to have that. We all can have that, we all can have it all. 

We all started from the same place with the same opportunities. But over many lives our choices have either brought us further on our path or set is back. Usually it's a little of both. 

Our choices created exactly where we are now but the good news is our choices can take us to where we want to go. If you don't know your purpose and want to know what choices are blocking you from moving forward and get them cleared I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. That info is here: 

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One way to know that you aren't on the right path is if there are a lot of repeating negative patterns. So perhaps you get a new person in your life but they do the same negative things to you the last one did. This happens because you keep doing something that is attracting that which is keeping you off your path.

Another way to know is when you feel like you keep getting blocked no matter what you try. At first your spirit guides will give you a light tap to warn you that you are going in the wrong direction but if you don't listen to that light tap it becomes stronger and stronger until you are hitting a brick wall. 

Since we have free will our spirit guides cannot stop us from making a choice but they can warn us strongly. If you listen to those warnings, your life will be much easier.  If you'd like to know more about your spirit guides so you know when they are trying to help you, that info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/spirit-guide-profile-reading

So really pay attention when you keep being stopped, that means you are going the wrong way and that choice isn't right for you. Now obstacles aren't always blocks so that can be difficult to distinguish. As we make new choices towards our path dissonance will always happen like mishaps and things just going wrong at the wrong time. 

That dissonance is actually a good sign and just shows you that you are closer to your goal and you need to keep going to push through that. So don't confuse dissonance, which is a good sign and means you are changing and closer to your goal, with guidance from your guides. 

Dissonance happens when you are actively making changes to achieve your goal and guidance from your guides will be an ongoing thing that keeps happening as you keep going in the wrong direction and will get stronger and harder as you go. Dissonance will stop once you reach your goal. 

The best way to know if something is right for you is to ask yourself if it is aligned with your purpose gift. Ideally you want everything in your life to align even including how you cook a meal or how you get ready. Your purpose gift should encompass everything you do, not just work. 

The more you use your purpose gift, the happier and and more abundant you will be in all areas of your life. You can never be abundant in your life if you aren't using your purpose gift. Without using your purpose gift,  life will always be a struggle but the more you use it the easier your life gets. 

That constant struggle in life is to show you that something is wrong and you need to start using your gift. Struggle is just a sign to make some changes but unfortunately so many get stuck in that struggle and think that's just how life is and it won't change. It can change so just use any struggle as guidance to get back on your path! 

Don't just resign to and stay stuck in the struggle! I don't want that for you! Use it as a tool to get out of it and back on your path! 

I want all of you to be on your path so embrace and use your purpose gift thoroughly! Your purpose gift is your path. It's your choice how you use it but as long as you are using it you are on your path. The more you use it the farther down your path and better you will be! 

Using your purpose gift not only makes you happy but everyone around you as well. Use your gift and help the world! No matter how far off of your path you are right now, you can choose to get right back on it at any time! 

6 Things Not To Do If You Want To Find Love

1. Don't treat yourself bad

Neglecting yourself and putting yourself last is a sure fire way to attract someone that will neglect you and put you last as well. So start treating yourself how you want to be treated! Always make time for yourself. No negative self talk! 

2. Don't allow others to treat you wrong

When you allow others in your life that aren't treating you right, you are telling the universe that's what you want and you will attract more of it. Instead be sure to not allow anything you don't want in your life. At the first red flag put up your boundaries and stop it right in its tracks. 

What you allow is what you are putting out into the universe saying "I want this". So really be sure you aren’t allowing any thing or any one in your life that you don't really want or you will only attract more of what you don't want. 

3. Don't be obsessed with finding love

When you are so consumed with finding love it actually puts out a desperate energy out there which actually repels love. The key to finding love is getting to a happy place within yourself where you don't need it, that's when it comes to you. 

So really focus on yourself and on what you want. Create a happy life for yourself and then that love will come to you and be the cherry on top. 

Get to a point where you realize you don't need love because you have all you need within yourself. Happiness has to come from within first. The happier you are and the more you don't need love, the more it is attracted to you. 

4. Don't live in a fairy tale

Never seek or expect someone to save you that can't attract real love. Know you can only save yourself. Fairy tale dreams of a prince saving you only harm your possibility for real love. 

Create your own fairy tale yourself on your own, you have that power. Be your own fairy tale and then that wonderful love will come. So focus on you and on creating your own happiness not expecting someone else to, then love will come. 

5. Don't worry yourself about time constraints 

This can be hard especially for women worrying about their biological clock ticking and pressure to get married. But that worry and desperate energy repel love and make it take even longer to come to you. 

So try not to worry about a time frame. Focus on what is in your control in your life. Create happiness in all areas of your life that you can. That happiness and confidence attracts love, not a desperate need to hurry. Trust that it will work out and concentrate on what you can do. 

6. Don't settle

When you settle in any area of your life you are saying you don't want better and want less than. Really look at what you are settling on in your life and make changes. You don't have to settle and when you choose to you only attract more circumstances where you have to settle which includes your love life. 

If you'd like help to find and clear the specific issues blocking you from love I can help you in a Finding Love Reading And Clearing. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/finding-love-reading-and-clearing

How To Connect With Your Spirit Guides To Help Your Life

Our spirit guides are always there to help us. But there are ways that we can help them to help us better. Here's how.

First of all it's important to know that they are always there to help but you run the show. They are there to help you but cannot go against your wishes even if it could harm you. 

They cannot interfere with your free will. They will try their best to give you signs and steer you away from harm but your choices are always in control. You are always in control. You are always driving the car, they are more of a backseat passenger that's trying to help you. 

They have a bigger perspective from where they are and can see things that you may not be able to. That's why building the best relationship you can with them can be so helpful. If you are really connected to them it can be sort of like a cheat sheet through life and can save a lot of mishaps and trouble, if you listen that is. 

Most people get so many signs from them that they just ignore or down play. Be sure to always listen to any intuition messages you get or feelings. Start trusting yourself and your guides more. The more you trust yourself and your intuition, the stronger and more helpful it gets. 

At first, try to set up a specific consistent time to connect with them. Many like to do this right before bed or first thing in the morning because connection can be easier. Just sort of meditate with an intention of connecting to them. Really be open and pay attention to any thoughts and feelings. Keep a journal and write anything you get down. Looking back on what you write down can be so helpful later on. 

It may not make sense in that moment but after time has passed it will be clearer and make more sense. And seeing things in hindsight can help you to see the messages in the right way ahead of time next time. It's like learning the language of your guide and becoming fluent in it to make things easier for you. There is a dance and learning process that is important just like in any relationship. 

Over time you will start to remember what their presence feels like so when they are trying to help you, you can pick up on it easier. 

If you would like to know more about your guides including how many you have and what their signal is to you I can find our for you in a Spirit Guide Profile Reading. That info is here: https://www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/spirit-guide-profile-reading

As you get more comfortable with your guides, use the time to connect with them to be really clear on what you want. The clearer and more specific you are, the better they can help you.  

One thing that is very important is to make sure your actions line up with your thoughts about what you want. Our actions and what we physically do will always outweigh our thoughts. 

So if you are telling your guides you want a partner that treats you right but are allowing and staying with a partner that doesn't treat you right, your guides can only help you stay with someone that treats you wrong because that's what you are showing you really want. 

Our free will can never be interfered with so what your actions are showing you want is what your guide will help you to continue with. This can also cause us to hire a negative spirit guide to help us do things that aren't good for us which can be frustrating. 

So it's vital to really be sure your actions match up with what you really want. Don't say you want one thing but do something that doesn't match that. And what and who you allow around you is a big part of our actions speaking for us. Don't allow anyone or anything around you that doesn't match up with what you want. 

So if you are really clear with them on what you want and are taking actions to match that, then your guides can help you tremendously! Like everything in life, being clear on what you want and showing that in your actions is so important. 

So really open up to and connect with your guides, it is so beneficial. The more you do,  the more help you can get from them. So use your power and free will with your guides' help and create the life you want now! You are in control! 

4 Steps To Create The Life You Want

We all can create the lives we want. So many settle and think they have to stick with the life they have but that's not true. There is always a way to start towards the life you really want. Here are some tips to get there. 

1. Know what you want. 

The first and most important thing is to know what you do want and what you don't want. You can not create without having at the least an idea of what you want to start with. 

Even if you don't know for sure, focus on what you think you want and start working towards it. As you get closer if you realize you don't want that anymore let that be okay. That will help you to further narrow down what you do want. 

It's so important to be clear on what you want, if not then what you want will be decided for you and you won't be happy. So really take time to focus on getting clear on what you want. The clearer you are, the more your spirit guides can help you with it. 

Indecision is a sure way to feel stuck and you don't want that. Some people stay stuck in indecision because they are perfectionists and are afraid of making the wrong choice. The only real wrong choice is not making one at all. If you never make a choice you can never move forward and can never create the life you want. 

Even the wrong choice will help you tremendously. It helps you to figure out what you don't want and to get clearer on what you do want. So let go of that fear to make a decision and start going for it! That is the only way to have the life you really want! 

If you feel stuck and indecisive, doing something, anything out of your comfort zone can help to open up your creative energy and get your thoughts flowing. Really focus on what you want and what makes you happy. 

2. Elimination 

We all have a certain amount of time and in order to put what we want in our lives we must cut out some things that we can replace with what we want. 

So first start with what don't you want that's in your life? What do you feel just obligated to do? Obligation is never good for anyone and always takes you off of your path. Know that you can say no! 

Really work towards eliminating things that you really don't want to do. There is always a way to make a change. It may take time to implement but just starting towards it makes a huge difference. Your time is precious,  fill it with what makes you happy and with what is fulfilling the rest is not important!

Also look into who you are around in your life. Even just one negative person can create a huge issue in your life. Work towards being only around those that lift you up not bring you down or cause drama. Just allowing one of those people in your life will cause you to attract more of that. 

It's your life and you can choose who you want to be around no matter the person is to you. Yes it may be hard but is being miserable forever really worth it instead of taking the hard step to move forward from them? 

Really look at who or what is holding you back and work towards eliminating them/it from your life. You have the power to create that happy life and sometimes that takes some hard choices but it is worth it. A little while of a hard choice is worth forever with peace and happiness. 

Also look at what you are doing in your life that is unnecessary. So many think that they just HAVE to do everything but that's not true. Really see what you can cut back on or eliminate to give yourself more time for what you do want. Work with your happiness and fulfillment in all areas of your life as your main focus! 

3. Plan

Once you know what you do want and eliminate what you don't want, now it's time to start planning. Really plan ahead and schedule in what you do want to be sure you can do it. Make it important and put it on your calendar. 

So many think what they want isn't important enough to schedule and then they never get to it. But in fact that is the most important thing! We are here on earth to experience and express ourselves so that really should be number one on all of our lists! 

Also think ahead about the steps it will take to create what you want. Do you need to go back to school or get more training for that dream job? Do you need to finally make time for that hobby you so enjoy? Do you need time for you to just rest and read a book? 

Whatever it is, break it down into steps and start towards it one step at a time. Don't overwhelm yourself thinking of all the steps it will take, just focus on one step at a time and before you know it you will reach your goal! 

Just starting in the right direction can be so fulfilling just in itself and can give you lots of momentum. So take time to plan out and schedule the steps to get to the life you want. No excuses! 

4. Implement 

Now start implementing your plan! You have that time scheduled in now so do it! As you do, pay attention if you need to make any tweaks or changes. Your life is always a work in progress so keep making changes until you get it exactly how you want! 

Always be open to seeing anything you aren't happy with and start to change that. Keep tweaking until you get it right. As you do you will start to notice when something doesn't feel right right away and you can eliminate it quickly. Once you get into that flow of the life you want it will get easier and easier to maintain that.

You are important and you are here to experience what you want. You and only you have the power to have that life you want so use it! Don't stand in the way of your happiness! 

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Here's The Low Down On Past Lives

Here is some information about past lives to help give you some clarity and help you in this present life. 

We all have had many past lives. We have all been both male and female, many ethnicities, and gay, straight etc. We choose what we are in each life by what will help us most with what we need in that life. 

Also where we start out depends on where we left off last in our last life which is what we always resonate to when we start our next life. No matter what we always start off energetically where we left off last time. 

So for instance if you are born into an abusive situation in this life it's because in the last life you were choosing to abuse yourself in some form. Nothing ever just happens to us, we attract it because of our choices. The good news is we can always change our choices to attract better!

We cannot remember our past lives while on earth because it would be way too much for us to remember all at once and would distract us from the life we are in now. 

We all have lived hundreds of lives and have been through many things so remembering all that at once would be confusing and would distract us from what we are supposed to learn. It's hard enough keeping track of this life, imagine having information for hundreds of lives all at once? That would be very daunting!

Sometimes during life we will get a flash of a past life. This only happens if it's important and will help you in the current life you are in. For instance in this life you may have a strong fear of choking and then you find out you were choked to death in a previous life. This can help you to let go of that fear and realize that fear is left over from a past life and it's over now and you can let that go. 

The life we are in now is what matters the most and what we need to concentrate on. So we don't want to be distracted by meaningless things from our past lives. 

But getting information on patterns we are still in from past lives can be so helpful in this life. Knowing why and when they started can sometimes be enough in itself to finally stop the pattern.

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Once we cross over, we will remember all of our lives and everyone in them again. It will be like no time has passed. We usually incarnate with the same souls over and over but in different forms. So for instance in one life a soul may be your mother but in the next life that same soul could be your son etc. 

Our past lives are over so while we are on earth there is no need to remember them for the most part other than what can help us in this present life. 

Sometimes we may have some fears stuck from them that stay with us and hold us back so moving forward with that can be so freeing! 

All of our past lives have molded us to who we are now. We learned from our past lives and that's what helped to make us who we are today. 

After each life we take our knowledge and growth with us but leave the rest behind. Only our spirit, soul, and our subconscious come with us each time. Our spirit is our soul, our subconscious is everything except our body that goes with us to the other side and to earth each time.

Sometimes when we hear about something from the past and feel very connected to it, it could mean we are picking up on something from a past life. When I was in second grade we were studying Egypt and hieroglyphics. 

I was very interested in it which I usually wasn't interested in anything else in school at that time. I found out later that in one of my lives I studied in a pyramid school in Egypt. So that intense eagerness to learn everything about Egypt at the time makes sense now. 

So when you have that strong connection to something it's very possible it's from a past life. So love everything you have been through in all your lives because that is what makes you who you are now. 

Now focus on making this life even better so you can start off in an even better place next time around. It is all on your control so make this life great! 

How To Make Choices That Create The Life You Actually Want

It's most often the little choices you don't even think about that are affecting your life the most. So many are creating a life they don't want without realizing they are doing it. Here is how to change that. 

Our choices create our life not our heart or our thoughts. Our thoughts help us think about what we want to create but our physical action choices are what actually create our life.

You can think about making nachos but they will not just appear until you actually take the actions to make or buy them. Physical choices create physical circumstances. 

I want to give some examples of choices that can create your life without intending to. 

So let's say you are in a relationship with someone that is treating you bad. This can be in any form from not respecting you or your time to full fledged abuse or anywhere in between. 

When you continue to allow it and stay in that relationship you are telling the universe that's what you want and more situations like that will come into your life. But if you cut the relationship off at the first red flag you are showing the universe you don't accept or allow that in your life and you will not attract more of that. 

What you are allowing in your life is how you are showing the universe you want more of. Most people don't realize this and continue suffering through and more and more of what they don't want shows up. They tell themselves "If I just suffer through a little longer hopefully it will get better." But it's only by changing your actions to not allow that anymore is what will make it better. 

Suffering through something just attracts more things in your life to suffer through. Through your choices you are telling the universe that you like suffering through things so the universe says "As you wish" and sends more things for you to suffer through your way. You have free will and only you can create your life so use it to your advantage! 

It's important to be really clear about your boundaries. Know what you won't allow and be strong and stick to that so you don't let any of that energy start to creep in your life. Once it creeps in then more and more will pile on until you stop it. Suffering through something or continuing to struggle through only attracts more of that into your life. 

Every single thing in your life now you created by your choices. Knowing that is so powerful because once you realize that you can make choices to create what you do want instead.

It's important to really dissect all the choices you are making to make sure the consequences are what you do want in your life. 

If there is something or someone in your life you aren’t happy with, start taking steps to change that. There is always a way. Being a martyr and suffering through only attracts more misery to your life. Start creating your life how you want! 

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To get to the root of your issues really look at the energy of your choices. Are you doing anything out of obligation? Any obligation is like poison and will always get you off of your path. Really assert your control over your life and start working towards cutting out what you don't want and adding more of what you do want. 

The energy behind the choices you make is key. So let's say you want more peace in your life. If you don't have that now that means you are making choices that are the opposite of peace. So perhaps you are choosing to engage with people that aren't peaceful or you aren't allowing time for yourself to have some peace and unwind or ate piling too much on your plate etc. 

So look at where you aren't happy in life and know you have the power to make those changes to create what you do want. Your life is like clay, mold it how you want.

What are you suffering through or allowing in your life that you don't want? Start cutting out things that have the energy you don't want and start adding things that do have the energy you want. 

Don't just suffer through and get by, you don't have to do that! Create that happiness in your life, you are the only one that can do that! 

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7 Things To Do To Help Your Self Esteem

1. Don't compare yourself to others

We all started this life at a different point in our journey. Comparing yourself to anyone else is like comparing apples and oranges so don't torture yourself like that. You can use others to help motivate you to go further but never compare where you are to where someone else is, there is no comparison. 

2. Make small goals

If you make huge goals and never reach them that takes a toll on your self esteem.  Break your goals down into more manageable ones. The more you reach a goal you set for yourself, the better your self esteem will get. 

Don't set yourself up for failure with an unreachable goal. Know you can do anything you want to but start with a little at a time. As you keep conquering all your goals your self esteem will rise. 

3. Make yourself a priority 

If you put yourself last, that is telling yourself and the universe that you are not important. Make yourself important! Know that you deserve to be put first and take actions that show that! 

If you put yourself last you will attract others that put you last as well. So take care of yourself and know that you are worthy of that! 

4. Let go of negative self talk

The more you talk down to and about yourself, the more you start to believe it. It can take time and effort to dig yourself out of that hole if this pattern has gone on for a while. 

The first step is to be aware and notice when you are talking or thinking down about yourself and stop yourself and redirect your thought. If you keep catching and stopping yourself it will get less and less overtime. 

Next, purposely start talking and thinking good about yourself. Focus on your great qualities and constantly remind yourself of them. Replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and overtime your self esteem will increase. 

5. Forgive yourself for past mistakes 

This is a huge one that most people are guilty of. We all make mistakes, that is how we learn. Don't punish yourself forever for a mistake you made. You are not your mistakes! 

Every mistake is a gift and teaches us something. Take the knowledge you learned but leave the rest behind. Forgive yourself so you can move forward. Start with where you are now and move forward. Punishing yourself will only keep you stuck and make your self esteem worse. 

6. Focus on change

Anything you are not happy about, start focusing on changing it going forward. Create your life how you want to. Your life is like clay, you have the power to mold it how you want to. 

Don't allow yourself to stay stuck in circumstances you don't want that never helps your self esteem. Show yourself how great you really are by creating the life you really want. You have all the power in the world but you must use it! 

Don't allow yourself to wallow in what's wrong, start taking steps to correct it! Even just one small step towards making positive changes can make you feel so much better. The more you tailor your life to what you want, the better your self esteem will be. Show yourself how much power you really have over your life and take control. 

When things feel off listen to yourself and change them. You never have to stay stuck in something you don't want. If you need help moving forward in any area of your life I have lots of reading, clearing, and coaching choices available to help you with where you are now. All the choices are here:

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7. See yourself through others eyes

We all can be our worst critics. Take some time to really see yourself through the eyes of those that love you, even through your pets eyes. We can see everything wrong when we look through our own eyes, but those that love us focus on everything that is right. 

Something that seems horrible to you is usually not even something someone that loves you even notices! So start seeing yourself through the eyes of love instead of the eyes of criticism and build on that! Love yourself and know you are amazing! 

Know that you are perfect how you are. Your soul has been refined over many lives and has been through a lot. Celebrate all you have endured and how strong you are. 

Believe in yourself and know you are already amazing. If you knew the full story of all your lives you would worship yourself for all you have accomplished. So see the bigger picture and start worshiping yourself today and know you are worthy! You are amazing right now, know that and can keep building on that!